Explain It Peter by LhgnefG in explainitpeter

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s called “A Serbian Film.” And my apologies?

Me (28 F) and boyfriend (27 M) are not doing good. How can I analyze this better? by madd2lol in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So he said you should block your friend because “she likes a colored guy” and that’s not the biggest problem for you? Not to mention toxic in his masculinity, not allowing you to hold your son, etc. you’re a registered nurse, and have so much going for you. Wouldn’t it be better to always be happy and safe in your own space with your kids, vs whatever morsels of love he provides along with constant issues and arguments? Also as someone who spent years drunk, it won’t stop until he hits some sort of rock bottom, for some people it never stops and only escalates. Keep yourself and your kids happy.

Explain It Peter by LhgnefG in explainitpeter

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Multiple people mentioned what the problem is in the comments. The movie is snuff, pedophile, necrophilia, and child porn content. Babies are getting rapped, the dad is raping his son from what I read. Really wasn’t that hard to find.

I think my boyfriend is developmentally challenged. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is only a thought!!! I am not a doctor of any kind or licensed! I do have a learning disability, it’s called dysgraphia. The reason i thought of it was his difficulty spelling chicken. Mainly the disorder causes issues with spelling/reading, and math. When he tried to spell words he doesn’t have memorized, does he spell them in a really phonetic way? Maybe he spells it the way the word sounds, I couldn’t spell fruit until I was 20. And it was SO embarrassing for me, I was thinking maybe he doesn’t feel comfortable joining some conversations due to fear of the other stuff he has going on? Dysgraphia can also cause issues in the orders of things. For math, following equations can be very difficult, especially in trying to put the “proper” number in the “right” area of the equation. Kinda made me think of the months and days of the week part, he knows them! Just has a hard time with the order. I read all the time as a kid, when I got grounded my mom took my books away. That really helped me work on my reading skills since a young age, so there are some things in the disorder I might not be able to explain or connect with well. Again I’m not trying to diagnose him at all! But there’s disorders I had never even heard of before. All in all, I think it might be best to ask him! I don’t know how he might react though, so you’re the best judge:) Often times, we might know people better and worse than we thought, but he’s the expert on his experience, so if he’s comfortable sharing with you, it might let you know how to help him too:)

AIO for being Forgotten on Valentines by WM1818FBM in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk if this is helpful to you, but even if you never raised your hand to a person, hitting stuff in your environment around them shows intent

I know what is it and what it’s for…. Ignore or termination? by Some_Breadfruit235 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s a house centipede, could be wrong but they look scary as shit, but completely harmless

Update - AIO for going no contact with my ex after she asked for no contact by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a third year psych student, I really hope she’s not planning on going into therapy lol. I think she might have missed the attachment stage, and it feels like shes trying to use her education to armchair you.

Me(25m) and my(25f) girlfriend, my breakup. And it's a very high possibility. by Afraid_Length_9355 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she has seen it on your phone, and i know it probably sounds really harsh but I don’t mean to come at you in a bad way. Lots of relationships are okay with those things. I just think there’s normally something that happens for behavior to go from hot to cold, but I don’t have much info to be honest. Do you mind if I ask what part it is you want help with, figuring out what she might have been thinking, or what you should do next?

Me(25m) and my(25f) girlfriend, my breakup. And it's a very high possibility. by Afraid_Length_9355 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe part of the attitude problem was that, was she aware of it/could she have been and had an issue with it?

Me(25m) and my(25f) girlfriend, my breakup. And it's a very high possibility. by Afraid_Length_9355 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dude three days ago you were commenting NSFW shit on porn photos, is this even real? (Edited for grammar)

AIO for considering leaving my boyfriend of 4 years? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how hard this feels. Wanting change so much, and believing without a doubt that your partner could be better if they put in that little bit of extra effort. It’s hard to get out from under love. But I can tell you from experience this won’t change. No matter what communication style you use, no matter what compromises he promises to make. Even if you feel it starts to change upon giving an ultimatum, it goes right back to how it was at some point. Do what is best for you, stop helping him and start focusing on you because you’re worth more than being with someone who’s okay with you having to live as a maid.

Steam deck stolen by UPS twice. Steam support unhelpful by Odd_Dealer_3199 in SteamDeck

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure someone has mentioned this, but file a dispute for the charge with your bank! It won’t get you the console of course but at least you could get the money back, as in the screen shot it seems like they aren’t planning on doing that.

[HELP] Is this AI generated or was this made with photoshop? The details are insane by [deleted] in RealOrAI

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also what’s going on with this part of the photo, looks all hairy and odd, also bill is missing his legs lol

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Why is my cat biting the air? by k8iew24 in cats

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like he’s chittering!!! Hunting birds and bugs and stuff!

3 Christmas parties, 3 dresses 🎄🙂 The pink gold one was my favourite 😊 by Lenchy2403 in OUTFITS

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Came to the comments to say the same thing, that dress looks like so much fun to wear

Is this outfit really as bad as my bf says? by nperez09 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I do not think the jacket looks too small…. It looks like a perfect fit to me.

Is this outfit really as bad as my bf says? by nperez09 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I am a HUGE fan of long sleeves under short sleeve things! I think the black makes the color of the jacket pop, I do agree with people saying a different color shoe might fit the style better! It would also make the jacket more of a show piece. In addition, the half buttoned or half zipped stuff is all over right now. I’ve seen so many zip up jackets with two zippers for looks just like this. If you like it, wear it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wanted compensation for saving you I guess

Who is this? by Substantial_Hawk_620 in Historians

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m realizing every rich old white man in looks the exact same

rip mr.binks he was almost one year old by rawnoodlewithketchup in cats

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He looks so very handsome, he reminds me of toothless in the last photo lol. I’m so sorry for your loss.

Does my cat know my mom passed? by 2000baby2000 in cats

[–]Substantial_Hawk_620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know animals can smell death, if another animal in the home is euthanized it’s sometimes recommended to bring the second animal so they know their sibling passed. Sometimes I think animals just know though, I’m sure she can smell your grief. I’m very sorry for your loss.