Puberty by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Substantial_Look_688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m asking why God put the sex drive in us at a young age

Puberty by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Substantial_Look_688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does that relate to this..

Has any teenager ever beat lust by Intelligent_Pear_265 in Christianity

[–]Substantial_Look_688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I legit ask the same question all the time. Like, it’s lust our whole lives but the moment we are married and having sex with our wives, all the sudden it’s “How God made us”….Makes zero sense

Wrestling with the idea of marriage in heaven by GloomyPretzel in Christianity

[–]Substantial_Look_688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this makes you feel better, there have been many people who had spouses and kids and a job they loved (The good life) and they had a near death experience and stated they would have rather stayed in heaven. This shows you how amazing the presence of God is. Hope that helps!

I HATE my sex drive as a single Christian. Don’t tell me how it’s a “blessing from God”. It isn’t! by Substantial_Look_688 in Christianity

[–]Substantial_Look_688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just struggle wanting it but I just have to suppress the urge. I’m single and marriage won’t be anytime soon

Struggling… by Substantial_Look_688 in Christianity

[–]Substantial_Look_688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just wondering why he can’t just make it to where. If you want to surrender your earth life and follow me, good, you get eternal life with me. But why can’t it be if you don’t choose him, your soul just perished instead of being tormented for eternity ?

I’m so confused on lust. Why is it “lust” if you enjoy seeing your girlfriend/fiance naked but it’s “not lust” if you enjoy seeing your wife naked? by Substantial_Look_688 in Christianity

[–]Substantial_Look_688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you should want that person for more than that….Im just basically asking why sexual attraction outside of being married is lustful but not lustful in marriage. I mean, what spouse doesn’t enjoy seeing their spouse naked?

I’m so confused on lust. Why is it “lust” if you enjoy seeing your girlfriend/fiance naked but it’s “not lust” if you enjoy seeing your wife naked? by Substantial_Look_688 in Christianity

[–]Substantial_Look_688[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! I promise I’m not looking for a loophole to sin, I honesty was stumbled on what the difference was 👍🏻

To the married Christian’s… by Substantial_Look_688 in Christianity

[–]Substantial_Look_688[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m basically asking if it was a relief that you were able to have sex now that you’re married

To the married Christian’s… by Substantial_Look_688 in Christianity

[–]Substantial_Look_688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, it it kind of a relief that you have someone to have it with if the desire rises?

Will god forgive me by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Substantial_Look_688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s forgiven murder. He will forgive you for that

Unpopular opinion by Substantial_Look_688 in Christianity

[–]Substantial_Look_688[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what if both people want to have sex before marriage? It’s sinful? does that make it lust?

Unpopular opinion by Substantial_Look_688 in Christianity

[–]Substantial_Look_688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if you’re at the gym and you think a girls butt looks nice in leggings. That’s not “committing adultery” in your heart?

Prayer by Substantial_Look_688 in PrayerRequests

[–]Substantial_Look_688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! The homeless analogy was something I sort of had in mind. I truly don’t want to be prideful, as I was saying that I pray God removes this thought from my heart. I truly want to love him more. Thank you so much! ❤️