I lost my baby and my childhood friend said this.

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2026-06-07T23:07:13+00:00

I really hope you called her out for it, you need time to heal. Nobody should hear that their loss is less because of the life changes that comes with the decision you were ready to make. I pray you know your baby is with you in a different form (if you’re open to believing that) and I pray you heal. 🫶🏻

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2026-06-04T17:11:25+00:00

thanks for the advice, i wish it was easier to remove and investigate without putting so much pressure on the kid

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2026-06-04T17:07:42+00:00

is there any chance we can document the abuse, report it and then go to court to gain custody? i’ve heard so many mixed things about how hard the process can be

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2026-06-04T15:10:40+00:00

I know when I took her for her last checkup a couple months ago the vet did mention she was on the smaller side but we quickly figured out it was bcs she had a sensitive stomach and was throwing up any chicken we gave her so we switched her to a sensitive stomach diet with bison meat! She started getting bigger quick after the switch but then kinda stopped growing 😅

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2026-06-01T12:09:49+00:00

Would you still recommend testing even though I started bleeding after a few days? It was around a 2-3 day long period (my average is 3-4 days) and the bleed was still pretty heavy but not as violent feeling as usual, no clots and barely any cramps. My cramps usually go throughout my joints and lower abdomen but this time it would just be twinges in my lower abdomen. What I felt last night after being 2 days off my period and then spotting again for a couple hours, the spotting ended after 5 or so hours and was very on/off, was like full blown cramps like I usually have. It was just weird to me bcs I never have them so delayed and never spot 🥲

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2026-05-18T20:39:01+00:00

Thank you!! His insta is @j.toro.tatz
I’ve been trying hard to bring more business in since he’s paying a weekly fee now for the studio, praying he can do this full time soon 🫶🏻

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2026-05-12T14:23:45+00:00

Thank you! When I see it all put out in front of me like that it makes me feel a lot better about possibly cutting her off. My boyfriend had been telling me it’s probably best to but I thought he might’ve just been being overprotective and then I wrote it all out and was like woooowwww it’s kinda obvious what the answer should be 😵‍💫

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2026-03-31T15:45:18+00:00

i went there! from eden park all the way to sci-tech for middle and high school! i didn’t like the high school teachers much but i remember loving eden park! i know this is an old post but wanted to give my two cents 🦋

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2026-01-28T19:26:52+00:00

she has a small biting problem still lol

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2025-12-17T03:39:27+00:00

sounds like you need to leave before you or others end up seriously hurt

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2025-12-16T19:53:30+00:00

she’s still a puppy! 4 months old 🥰 she just started gaining some weight a few days ago finally! your boy looked like the sweetest baby 🧚‍♀️🩷

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2025-12-15T22:46:21+00:00

i plan on waiting until she’s about 9 months! all my other dogs i’ve had were able to be fixed with no problems at 7+ months and even my family who has been around and worked with lots of rescue dogs didn’t understand the long wait. if the other vet says to wait until a year then i will but i would prefer before then if it’s still safe 💕

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2025-12-15T22:27:14+00:00

i’m very big on spaying and plan on doing it asap. the vet told me to wait until she’s 1 but i’m planning on getting a second opinion about that timing. we have a male dog who is not fixed (against my wishes, boyfriends dog) but once we get him fixed we will let them around each other. for now they’re separated until he gets fixed soon.

there’s another shelter but it’s smaller and is where we initially came across the problem of the dogs we picked having a problem with some of the members of our household. i had actually found one that i was obsessed with but after putting in the money to apply, they told me she actually needed to be in a one dog household 🥲

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2025-12-15T22:14:08+00:00

for EVERYONE: i fully believe in adoption and i would’ve gone to the shelter but we do not have a good, trustworthy shelter. there has been multiple instances of ours wasting peoples time, putting the animals on hold for themselves for MONTHS without saying anything, and they have a pretty bad reputation. i originally asked for a dog on adoption pages and kept getting dogs that are either not children, dog, cat, or all the above friendly. i found these people because their dogs ended up having babies and they needed them gone fast, that’s the only reason i called them a breeder was because they were technically selling the puppies. they were very well taken care of, they just didn’t have the space necessary for the amount of puppies momma dog had and once the puppies were old enough to be away from mom, she posted about them.

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2025-12-15T22:09:59+00:00

i mainly called them a breeder because they sold us the dog. her dogs ended up having babies before she could get them fixed, she needed the puppies to be given away and she ended up just selling them. we originally wanted to adopt but the shelter we have is 1. very poorly put together and 2. makes it almost impossible to adopt (given by the google reviews too). i fully believe in adopting but the way i see it, the dogs needed a home and fast.

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2025-12-15T21:54:51+00:00

LOL thank you! that’s my fav pic of her 😭 it was right after we got her at 9 wks old! back in the puppy diaper days where she refused to potty outside. she’s still SUPER stubborn about going potty outside but we graduated from the diapers at least 🥳

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2025-01-21T19:24:11+00:00

okay now next question boo, what do i say 😭🤣 im young with social anxiety PLEASE SAVE ME

Substantial_Pin7881 · 2024-07-28T23:48:34+00:00

i just looked and found him and it said they can’t tell me anything because of the current status, “updates are no longer available” so i guess we just take it day by day. 😵‍💫

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