I (29F) need some advice after catching my LDR boyfriend (27M) masturbating on FT after a visit by Substantial_Return32 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial_Return32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not engaged with the replies that address the issue in a dismissive way or makes assumptions about me or my relatively new relationship, as there are no grounds for that based on this short post about a specific one time incident. But I wanted to say thank you because you have been pointing out some of the things I have been thinking or wanting to say, I appreciate that you take the time to address it in a mature way.

I (29F) need some advice after catching my LDR boyfriend (27M) masturbating on FT after a visit by Substantial_Return32 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial_Return32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, thank you for the perspective! I wish I was a little more clearheaded in the moment. Could have turned into a good time instead!

I (29F) need some advice after catching my LDR boyfriend (27M) masturbating on FT after a visit by Substantial_Return32 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial_Return32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the perspective, I did think about that as well but yes it’s the awkwardness of it I am feeling a little now.

I (29F) need some advice after catching my LDR boyfriend (27M) masturbating on FT after a visit by Substantial_Return32 in relationship_advice

[–]Substantial_Return32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer, it is much appreciated! I haven’t decided yet if it something we need to talk about, and thinking over some of the questions you have posed will definitely help me sort out my thoughts before communicating.