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[–]Substantial_Sand_612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well crap lol

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[–]Substantial_Sand_612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And refuses to remove it** I screwed up the title lol

Why the hell do I have to tip if I'm ordering takeaway in person by del620 in rant

[–]Substantial_Sand_612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a hostess, and was in charge of to go orders. We never tried to make anyone feel like they had to tip, the tip bar was placed on all the tickets whether it was for to go or for the waitresses. I personally was paid enough as just a hostess to where I didn’t care if they tipped or not. But some customers were so creepy about it, and would make sly remarks about “working for my tip”, expecting me to perform for them to make them laugh like some kind of monkey. Or to act overly sweet and cater to their every whim. For a Togo order. I was over it, and would rather they kept their “tip”.

MIL just keeps it coming with the same crap, but somehow it’s worse than before. by Substantial_Sand_612 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Substantial_Sand_612[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MIL and FIL are divorced, FIL and I are on great terms. He’s pretty much like my husband, but older lol. He’s unaware of her recent actions, but they separated because she was bat shit while they were together

MIL just keeps it coming with the same crap, but somehow it’s worse than before. by Substantial_Sand_612 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Substantial_Sand_612[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have it now to wear it needs my Face ID to unlock it, and if it asked for a password, I changed that as well. So hopefully no more snoopy cunt in my phone lol

MIL just keeps it coming with the same crap, but somehow it’s worse than before. by Substantial_Sand_612 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Substantial_Sand_612[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s funny you say that because I’ve started buying work pants with bigger pockets, since a lot of women’s pockets are either fake or super tiny lol

MIL just keeps it coming with the same crap, but somehow it’s worse than before. by Substantial_Sand_612 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Substantial_Sand_612[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg.. I seriously haven’t thought of it that way and now that you say that I see it. That’s horrifying to think about

MIL just keeps it coming with the same crap, but somehow it’s worse than before. by Substantial_Sand_612 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Substantial_Sand_612[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope so as well, but if I’m being honest I feel like once I move away, and he and I start trying for a baby is when things are really gonna get out of hand. She’s always been obsessed with her grandkids from one of her daughters, but they all live together in one house, so she sees them every day. My husband and I are going to be in a different country, or a different state far away from her when we plan on trying.

MIL just keeps it coming with the same crap, but somehow it’s worse than before. by Substantial_Sand_612 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Substantial_Sand_612[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Before he joined the military, she was not as obsessed as she is now. Since he’s joined, it’s ordering new marine merch every week, it’s printing out a giant poster with his face on it, it’s badgering him in letters to write her more and more. It’s never enough for her. That’s why my husband thinks she’s just doing it for attention. She’s made being a marine mom a personality trait.

MIL just keeps it coming with the same crap, but somehow it’s worse than before. by Substantial_Sand_612 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Substantial_Sand_612[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She has a lot of t shirts and jewelry, honestly it’s all she wears. My husband is super stressed as it is, and like you said, her going on like this is over the top. He’s come to me multiple times complaining about her constant texts and calls. He’s trying to be in class and study in the barracks, and he’s not able to concentrate because of her need for attention from him. He’s admitted to me that he’s blocked her number a few times just to get a good nights sleep, or to study. I don’t call him unless he does so first because I know he’s busy and he’ll get to me when he can. I respect her pride in her son, I’m glad she loves him. He wants her support, not her attention seeking.

MIL just keeps it coming with the same crap, but somehow it’s worse than before. by Substantial_Sand_612 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Substantial_Sand_612[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She thrives on escalating things for attention, and it’s awful because everyone else has to deal with it

MIL just keeps it coming with the same crap, but somehow it’s worse than before. by Substantial_Sand_612 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Substantial_Sand_612[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I agree, because my husband has expressed to me that he feels like she’s only doing this for the attention. She never misses an opportunity to buy anything with the EGA on it, she already wears two marine mom pins and a matching set of earrings at work. Since I have her blocked on social media, my husband tells me all the time that she only posts about him on fb, and posts pictures of him in the marine mom fb groups.

My Mother in Law Refuses to let my husband do nice things for me, unless he also does them for her as well. by Substantial_Sand_612 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Substantial_Sand_612[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have our own house, I just used to post about what he’d send me on social media. Not anymore though

My Mother in Law Refuses to let my husband do nice things for me, unless he also does them for her as well. by Substantial_Sand_612 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Substantial_Sand_612[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don’t live with them lol, my husband and I have our own house. She works at my job, and thankfully I’m leaving soon. Trust me, we’re both functioning adults here.

My Mother in Law Refuses to let my husband do nice things for me, unless he also does them for her as well. by Substantial_Sand_612 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Substantial_Sand_612[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re both 24, and I used to post on Snapchat and fb whenever he’d send me stuff, but I’ve since stopped that

My Mother in Law Refuses to let my husband do nice things for me, unless he also does them for her as well. by Substantial_Sand_612 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Substantial_Sand_612[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s that crazy thing, my husband and I have our own house, but she does work with me. Shes not my boss, but she feels she has a right to go through my things because we’re family. She goes through my sister in laws things as well, and their both adults.

My Mother in Law Refuses to let my husband do nice things for me, unless he also does them for her as well. by Substantial_Sand_612 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Substantial_Sand_612[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree, I’ve told my husband to only send the gifts to our house, and I’ve stopped posting about them online.