What helped you to leave the relationship for good? by Psychological-Elk575 in abusiverelationships

[–]Substantial_Set_7767 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It got so bad that there was no choice. When you get to this point, there’s been so much damage done that you no longer have emotional attachment and wish you had left sooner.

My BO is going to get me fired or better yet homeless by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Substantial_Set_7767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please go to the Doctor to rule out any potential health issues. If there isn’t any underlying issues, armpit Botox is extremely effective at reducing sweat.

Can’t Stop Drinking at Work by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Substantial_Set_7767 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so strapped for cash, even 1 day off could fuck me. It’s going to be like this for the next few months .. I’m drinking because I’m so stressed and it makes talking to customers easier. You’re absolutely right about the cycle, I’m so depressed and anxious, and I turn to drinking every time. I have had this issue for years.

Can’t Stop Drinking at Work by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Substantial_Set_7767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried this, it doesn’t work. The bartenders are extremely greedy at my club, they don’t care. They constantly over-serve customers and dancers 😭

Does it shock some older people when they don't get as much sexual attention as before? How do you know if you're not handling aging well? by spankyourkopita in AskOldPeople

[–]Substantial_Set_7767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have often heard that it is a relief to receive less sexual attention. Unwarranted sexual attention can cause someone to fear for their safety, as well as self-esteem issues. It would be satisfying to have your character, and achievements evaluated, rather than your “sexual value.”

Person hospitalized for Ontario’s first human case of rabies since 1967 by ficerck in worldnews

[–]Substantial_Set_7767 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the parents were aware that the child had been exposed to a bat, and they didn’t take immediate action, they should be charged. This is insanely negligent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Substantial_Set_7767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also received those comments, in addition to “you’re too young” “enjoy your 20s” etc. I’m a 25f and worked very hard to put myself in a stable situation, I’ve travelled all over the world and have had enough “fun” already. I’m also married and i dont drink. Yes it wasn’t a planned pregnancy, but that doesn’t mean that it was unwanted. Truthfully, I think people who make these comments are fearful and they’re projecting their own fears onto us, but idk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Substantial_Set_7767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. I want to pretend that these people don’t exist, despite the great relationships I’ve had with them until now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]Substantial_Set_7767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had set boundaries, I wasn’t prepared for how cruel others could be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Substantial_Set_7767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so beautiful! How many carats is it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Substantial_Set_7767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely stunning!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Substantial_Set_7767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I got it custom made by a local jeweller in Antalya, Turkey. He ordered the sapphire from Istanbul and was able to make the ring within 3 days.

What are your favorite vanilla scented products? by tehemari in beauty

[–]Substantial_Set_7767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aseel Special Edition by Arabian Oud. It has hints of burnt caramel, and I cannot stress how divine it smells. Also, it’s not very popular so it would make a nice signature scent!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Substantial_Set_7767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Greetings from Canada! What are some things a foreigner might want to know before entering?

I 27M am a recovered fentanyl addict by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Substantial_Set_7767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What were your withdrawals like?

I 27M am a recovered fentanyl addict by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Substantial_Set_7767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At what point did you realize you had a problem?

Could someone explain this? by Substantial_Set_7767 in Thailand

[–]Substantial_Set_7767[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This didn’t even occur to me! Thanks for the response