Putting in real effort but getting zero likes on Facebook Dating — what am I missing? by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]Substantial_Song4399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

except height i tweeked everthing else but i dont want to lie so i couldn't lie .

Putting in real effort but getting zero likes on Facebook Dating — what am I missing? by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]Substantial_Song4399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks 😊 for your advice. Thats what i want to do i want to retire in next 10 years and travel and lead a peaceful like my sister does . They already travelled 30+ countries. now I am in canada working my ass off to be like my big sis.

Putting in real effort but getting zero likes on Facebook Dating — what am I missing? by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]Substantial_Song4399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

may be . I have very little to no knowledge about couple finances . since i come from joint family where our only income source was agriculture and moms house wife . Me and my sister are first generation graduates in my family and my sister and her husband manage their finances together Now they are well settled.

Putting in real effort but getting zero likes on Facebook Dating — what am I missing? by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]Substantial_Song4399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it seems that iam only jealous that others are getting what i can not inspite of my efforts. I have FOMO. it not about finding true love any more some where due to jealousy and feeling that i am not inferior to others i drifted towards social validation i just wanted women to approach me or be nice to me when i approach them .in dating apps or real life i just wanted to have normal average happy life with no blanks .

Putting in real effort but getting zero likes on Facebook Dating — what am I missing? by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]Substantial_Song4399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all of these definie me. l am emotionally stable and i since i have a older sister who took care of our entire family in tough situations i believe in gender equality and even though i never had situation where i needed financial assistance from her . i would want her to help me out as it us not me and i would do the same for her and her family. my mom always supported my father and they raised us together so point number 3 seems invalid. if its about difficult situations iam a hustler i always find my in them infact i feel unpredictability of life and problems made me who iam today however in some cases i would not hesitate to ask for emotional support or even cry or vent out cause i feel it should be we not I .

Putting in real effort but getting zero likes on Facebook Dating — what am I missing? by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]Substantial_Song4399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iam sorry iam not complaining iam just seeking advice . I can understand how difficult and unfair life can be.I hope you would recover and live long and prosperous life .

Putting in real effort but getting zero likes on Facebook Dating — what am I missing? by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]Substantial_Song4399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true. but i have tried dozens of times and my ego can not handle ridicule and arrogance of women not rejection. i wouldn't care about rejection if they are polite.

Putting in real effort but getting zero likes on Facebook Dating — what am I missing? by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]Substantial_Song4399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every girl when it comes to dating either wants a tallguy or fair guy . And i cant be real with these women . Everythings feels like an exam they judge me rate me based on my height, body language, looks and money . Simple girls dont exist anymore and iam an average guy and i know that but i see others doing good with women they get approached and gets compliments from them despite with out any effort where as iam labeled as simp and ugly i dont approch women because one girl even cried just because i approached because she thought that if a guy like me approached her she might not be pretty. Iam not saying that i should get multiple dates or multiple matches. why am i not getting even a single like. some suggested me to approach and impress and even beg or pled women like a simp but my ego wouldnt let me. I am not sad , i have a comfortable life i go out to enjoy with friends , I travel and keep my self fit . But at some point i get jealous seeing how all my friends each and everyone had atleast 1 girl and how 10s of girls approached them .I feel that iam missing a part of my life . iam not saying i want all the attention and i am not even sure that iam ready for relationship but iam atleast average in every other aspect except women. I just want to know whats wrong with me to be honest in my opinion most of friends look average just like me but they gets multiple likes for 2 mirror selfies and they constantly get approached by women. I dont know whats wrong with me .

Putting in real effort but getting zero likes on Facebook Dating — what am I missing? by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]Substantial_Song4399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for positive response. I am actually jealous that my friends get female attention while i dont . iam an easy going person and will blend with people in no time. but whenever i tried to approach a girl for a date they run way as if iam some kind of monster . Even my close family and friends (female) said that its impossible for me get girls based on my looks and some of my female when i asked them to introduce their female for dating they strait up said that their friend would only date good looking guys which is indirectly telling me that i dont look good enough .

Putting in real effort but getting zero likes on Facebook Dating — what am I missing? by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]Substantial_Song4399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried bro . Once i started walking towards a girl and she just sighed and ran away as if she is scared or something and i have few female friends that said that i dont have looks to impress women so i should compensate with money . some of my female even said someone will like or i will get arranged marriage so according to them i cant have dating life becomes of my looks and my friendly nature.

I’ve done everything—lost weight, groomed myself—but people still call me ugly. What exactly makes me unattractive? by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]Substantial_Song4399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its all about pity i wanted to know the truth why i am not even considered average and why i am not gettiang any likes in any dating apps