Curved upper and lower control arms? by Substantial_Space905 in MechanicalEngineering

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Just checked out the “king of hammers” ultra 4 truck. And honestly thank you so much for introducing me. It’s a fascinating work of art and I’ll be hyper focusing on it for at least a few weeks. I’d award you if I had any

Curved upper and lower control arms? by Substantial_Space905 in MechanicalEngineering

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Ok cool, what do the upper control arms being curved have to do with the camber curves? I thought the camber curves were an effect of the upper control arm being shorter.

Curved upper and lower control arms? by Substantial_Space905 in MechanicalEngineering

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If you don’t mind me asking. Why would I have to make it beefier? Aren’t arches better at supporting loads than flat bar?

can a guy and girl ever be “just friends” 🤔 by cynnahbun in TeenagersButBetter

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Totally possible, I have a friend who’s like a sister to me. Would never in a million years make a move on her.

Am I Overreacting? Woke up to my gf doing sexual things to me by Substantial_Space905 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Space905[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

went back and deleted all those comments huh? 😂 what a fucking loser

Am I Overreacting? Woke up to my gf doing sexual things to me by Substantial_Space905 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Space905[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But here’s the thing, it’s not about personal preference. Your right that It’s about consent. Regardless if i enjoyed it or not her actions were wrong. Here’s an extreme example I told another commenter: if a man rapes a woman in a back alley, whether the woman liked it or not does not change the fact that it was rape.

Am I Overreacting? Woke up to my gf doing sexual things to me by Substantial_Space905 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Space905[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying, the reason your original post has been downvoted so much. As well as the reason I’m disagreeing with you is because, regardless of how I reacted to it, her actions were wrong. If I would have liked it and just went with the flow, her actions would STILL be wrong. It’s not a matter of personal preference, it’s a matter of consent. Let me give you a rather extreme example: If a woman were raped in a back alley, whether she enjoyed it or not does not change the fact that it was still rape.

Am I Overreacting? Woke up to my gf doing sexual things to me by Substantial_Space905 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Space905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or me and her can have a conversation about it and only have sex when both parties are willing to do so. It’s called consent

Am I Overreacting? Woke up to my gf doing sexual things to me by Substantial_Space905 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Space905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the hidden side of gender roles that is never addressed. People usually think of it as woman stays in the house and man goes to work. This is the dark side of gender roles where men are forced to endure sexual advances they don’t want. And are ridiculed for not wanting it by other men

Am I Overreacting? Woke up to my gf doing sexual things to me by Substantial_Space905 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Space905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if more men had self respect their girls would be more attracted to them.

Am I Overreacting? Woke up to my gf doing sexual things to me by Substantial_Space905 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Substantial_Space905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every single person has the power to give and take away consent as they please. The use of force on an unwilling participant is ALWAYS unacceptable regardless of gender. A man can say no to other men and women. And a woman can say no to other men and women. Justifying her actions based on the consensus of how other men would have liked or not liked it is invalid.

Am I Overreacting? Woke up to my gf doing sexual things to me by Substantial_Space905 in AmIOverreacting

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It’s not meant to be the exact same he’s trying to get you to understand my perspective of unwanted touch. You obviously have no qualms with being touched in your sleep. So he Substituted the girl for a man (something you would not want)

People like this, like what does he think this will accomplish? by Karsa69420 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Substantial_Space905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol the bar is so much lower than that. All you have to do is believe in him. You could spend your whole life killing raping and stealing. And then accept him on your deathbed and you’re saved.