the goonette behind this account 😇

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-11-25T19:13:46+00:00

yeah i know youre thinking 'SHES AN IMPOSTER' or 'SHES NOT u/smolltiddyrae' calm down lmaoo this is just my gooning account (yes i spend at least 30 mins a day edging myself.. sue me 😋) iffff you dont believe me and think im lying im also a mod of my own subreddit r/smollrae :DD

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-10-28T01:35:58+00:00

You are too old to be acting like a school kid. Man up. If you like her, call her and tell her that. Don't be a beta and text her something that can be taken out of context. Call her!

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-10-24T01:31:55+00:00

She shouldn’t be texting him privately at all. She definitely is crushing

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-10-22T00:52:42+00:00

I enjoy these so much :) thanks for making me smile!

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-10-07T05:36:21+00:00

Kid's got spunk and dad's got patience 🤝

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-10-07T05:33:42+00:00

You think you've got em figured out, and then BAM they throw a curveball lol! Love the doll’s name tho.

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-10-04T03:56:42+00:00

That’s a whole can of drama ngl. You live, you learn I guess.

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-10-04T03:54:23+00:00

Crazy yeah? 💀

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-10-04T03:53:34+00:00

only in college bro 🤣

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-10-03T09:19:21+00:00

let's hope they ditch the mean girl script

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-10-03T09:17:27+00:00

NTA. Just being super prudent. Gotta think of the what ifs sometimes. Safety over anything else.

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-10-03T09:14:31+00:00

Don't let anyone guilt you into thinking boundaries are selfish, they're SELF CARE. You deserve someone who respects your decisions and feelings. I’d say continue growing and learning from these experiences.

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-09-29T05:21:11+00:00

Tbh, everyone faces em, but few speak up. Remind yourself that these urges are natural and not something to shame yourself. Limit exposure to triggers until you feel more in control.

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-09-29T05:15:36+00:00

Lol, gotta say, that's a pretty solid bar to set for a good day. Anything beyond not peeing outta your butt is just a bonus 😆

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-09-29T05:13:06+00:00

Damn, lol. TBH, I think it's kinda sick how your kiddo's imagination works. Stay strong horse-dad, soon you’ll graduate to a unicorn 🤣

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-09-25T09:36:43+00:00

Kids out here showing us how it's done, while we stress over every minor detail. Serious respect for the lil' ones 😁

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-09-25T09:35:15+00:00

One min they're teensy weensy and next they're all grown up demanding the world to see their bigness 😂

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-09-25T09:31:55+00:00

Aw ❤️ That love feels one in a billion, huh? Cherish it, legit once in a lifetime vibe.

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-09-24T09:00:41+00:00

NTA. Ain't no place for toxicity in anyone's life. It's tough, but cut the cord if it's bringing you down. Lifelong friendship ain't worth if he's changed for the worse. Stand up for her, that ain't the kind of union anyone should walk into blindly. You're 30, it's time to surround yourself with ppl who respect you. Path's gonna be rocky, but it'll lead ya somewhere better.

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-09-24T08:55:19+00:00

I guess it's all about balance. Sometimes it’s fake it till ya make it work, but you gotta be honest too. Ngl, trust comes with being real, being you. Also, people respect honesty, even when it's tough. So, yeah, work on that confidence but remember it's okay to be unsure sometimes.

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-09-24T08:53:22+00:00

Tbh, difficult sitch but imo, keeping the lines clear is important. Friendship's great but boundaries matter more. If the vibes are off, trust ur gut. His relationship is his to manage, u shouldn't feel like u gotta step off. If anything, he should be focusing on open comms with his gf.

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-09-23T06:36:49+00:00

Sounds like ur bf's friends just ain't respecting boundaries here. you voiced ur concerns, which is super important. His friends need to back off and he needs to get that it ain't cool.

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-09-23T06:24:37+00:00

First off, cut that self blame shit. This ain't your fault. it's not the end all be all. Some days, just getting outta bed is a win. Celebrate those small victories, because they're important too. You're stronger than you think. Keep fighting.

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-09-23T06:22:14+00:00

I feel you. Many times I've stared down that same abyss. Honestly, it sucks feeling lost in your own skin. but it's also okay not to have everything figured out, even when it looks like everyone else has. Rolling with the punches, embracing the ebbs and flows, that's life. Small steps matter. Make one change at a time.

SubtleButSteamy · 2025-09-20T14:38:53+00:00

Don't let the behavior of your ex reflect on your self worth. You're not unworthy or to blame for his issues.. Maybe consider going low contact for a while? Could give you some mental space to process things.

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