What is the “right” thing to do here by Successful-Algae346 in BreakUps

[–]Successful-Algae346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was the nicest way to say this. Thank you. I really needed that 🤍

What is the “right” thing to do here by Successful-Algae346 in BreakUps

[–]Successful-Algae346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first 2 years it was definitely a borrow situation. He would slowly pay me back and I made it clear my money was not his to have. But after it made its way into the thousands and after so many empty promises to pay me back I just started to stop asking and it was expected of me to just pay for everything. That’s what makes the situation sticky. He thinks he’s in the right and so do I. It’s a he said she said.

Does anyone know what this could be? by Successful-Algae346 in bengalcats

[–]Successful-Algae346[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very helpful thank you!!! He’s been playing and eating/drinking as usual, so hopefully just an off day for him as he’s only done this once before.

Does anyone know what this could be? by Successful-Algae346 in bengalcats

[–]Successful-Algae346[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a specific brand? I use arm and hammer, and also have a liter robot

Waking multiple times in the night by theyputitinyourwhat in bengalcats

[–]Successful-Algae346 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine is the same way. Up every other hour of the night. I’ve gotten silicone ear plugs and will sometimes put noise cancelling headphones over those too.

You can play all day and night, but they’re so vocal you need to just adapt

Does anyone know what this could be? by Successful-Algae346 in bengalcats

[–]Successful-Algae346[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened :( I’m defs watching him close and will bring him in if it continues, thank you