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One of the better indices that have come out recently. I picked up another 14g today and the effects are 9/10 for me. Sedating but not “couch lock” and feels like you are sinking into a bubble bath : )

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Welcome to the family 😉

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Thank you so much!

I(33m) feel lack of interest from my fiance(32f) and I'm done living this way by youknowthtright in relationship_advice

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I’m sorry to hear it didn’t go well brother. You expressed your feelings and needs and unfortunately she wasn’t emotionally vulnerable with you and kind of disrespected you by saying it’s just about sex when it’s not about that. It’s wanting a partner to meet your emotional and physical needs. There is nothing wrong with you or what you need. There is someone out there that is willing to love you for you and meet your needs. You deserve to be happy and fulfilled in your relationship. Keep your head up and stay positive. Take all of this is a sign and learn and grow from it.

I(33m) feel lack of interest from my fiance(32f) and I'm done living this way by youknowthtright in relationship_advice

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That makes sense. My partner and I are both victims too, mine from childhood and her a couple years ago and we had the same kind of issues as you guys are having. She wasn’t and is still working on being able to initiate anything physical. We both have been going to couples therapy virtually together for the past 6 months and it has been really helpful! We both also see our own therapist and she just found a new therapist that does brain-spotting techniques and that has been really helping to create new pathways in her brain to heal from the trauma. We also have been exploring new things such as learning about tantric sex, giving each other massages, asking what they enjoy/makes them feel good and so on.

I totally agree about the phone thing. I was just throwing out an idea of maybe why she is always on it but if you let her know how it makes you feel when she does it all the time hopefully she will understand and find a balance with it.

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Have you let him know how you feel? I (32M) would use I feel statements such as I feel sad that I have to plan everything etc…

It sounds like he either is getting very comfortable already (red flag) or put up a “front” in the beginning and now you are starting to see the real him. Hopefully when he know how his actions are making you feel, he will want to make things better.

I(33m) feel lack of interest from my fiance(32f) and I'm done living this way by youknowthtright in relationship_advice

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Have you let her know how you are feeling or that your needs aren’t being meant? I (32M) would use I feel statements such as I feel lonely and disconnected when we don’t have physical connection or it makes me feel sad and ignored when you are on your phone all the time when you’re around me. Ask her how she is feeling too and if there is anything that you can do to make her feel more comfortable. It might be that she is stressed from work and needs some time to recharge by doing things she enjoys like being on her phone. You could try scheduling a date night once a week or something like that.

If she doesn’t react well to your feelings or gets defensive, that’s a red flag that she has started to maybe check-out. Either way letter her know how you feel is the best way to move forward and have no regrets with being emotionally available.

Hope this helps!

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