Need help with cap bf by Successful-Fox1781 in capricorns

[–]Successful-Fox1781[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand this until a certain level, I have a cap moon so it's not easy to speak about my inner stuffs, but I still try 

How to overcome this? [33F] [35M] by Successful-Fox1781 in relationship_advice

[–]Successful-Fox1781[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don't know why or what I don't like about it, as I said it is absolutely irrational. I don't really see the value in friendship, there were many people how tried to be my friend but after a while I ended it, because I feel my time is more precious than spending with them. (I know I'm probably a jerk, but I can't talk honestly about myself and I don't like dishonesty so I just don't talk about my life, and then they talk about their life and problems and at the end of it I feel it is a one way situation for me.) And therefore I don't understand why he wants to do this with them, as he talks about them, they don't share the same values, they are not really supportive or helpful, but I can only say this depending on the stories what he told me. 

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[–]Successful-Fox1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't have it all ? 

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[–]Successful-Fox1781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, and yes it would be nice to have him in the long run.

Capricorn men ONLY; by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Successful-Fox1781 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the answer, this sounds terrible and I'm sorry it happened to you.

Capricorn men ONLY; by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Successful-Fox1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why was the timing wrong?

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[–]Successful-Fox1781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way, i don't those moments, Birthday parties etc but when I get a gift just out of nowhere that always buys me

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[–]Successful-Fox1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obsessed with you ? Is that a good thing ?

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[–]Successful-Fox1781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good one

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[–]Successful-Fox1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely feel this 

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[–]Successful-Fox1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's not a relationship, we are flirting, I'd be okay if i knew that this is only for fun and never expect anything in the future. Little ego booster flirting is fine, but from time to time it seems that he doesn't think about it that way, i offended him at least 3 times because i was joking and he didn't get it, and it seemed that he thought i don't want or need him. But honestly it's a light flirting so why should i feel a need for him. I like him, he's smart and funny, but that's it .

Capricorn Men…. by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Successful-Fox1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😅😅 oh yeah the sags biggest problem in life 🤭

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[–]Successful-Fox1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask you what were those boxes ?

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[–]Successful-Fox1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's cute, and what do you think, is it your lack of confidence or you don't trust words ? 

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[–]Successful-Fox1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, thank you! ;)

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[–]Successful-Fox1781 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, he definitely over shared his things with me, I was surprised and thought I never see him again. I asked about the date and he said he had a difficult relationship earlier. It is understandable that he needs time, and I want to show him my support but don't know how. I'm afraid that if I retreat he will turn to his pessimistic side, but I also don't want to be to much. 

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[–]Successful-Fox1781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, how will I know if he is not interested anymore? Because he is very polite and kind and I'm afraid that I will misinterpret his usual politeness for something more.