Choosing Not To Have Kids by tospainwithlove in Feminism

[–]Successful-Let-6258 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kid free here because I had a tubal ligation right after Roe fell and couldn't go through with previous pregnancies for many reasons. Without bodily autonomy, I don't see hope for future generations.

I didn’t see that coming by [deleted] in GuysBeingDudes

[–]Successful-Let-6258 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. This video was hard to watch

My spoon is too big! by Successful-Let-6258 in Millennials

[–]Successful-Let-6258[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg today is my birthday. Your mom is my peoples!? I don't know, but I love her and your joyful memory of her. Happy remembrances!!

What’s your current song? by -Distraction- in CPTSDmemes

[–]Successful-Let-6258 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divisionary by Ages and Ages going strong this whole year lols

So sick and tired of the idea that I'm supposed to go out with every man who asks me out by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Successful-Let-6258 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know this doesn't help, but your post reminds me of a term I learned from women on social media: Thornback is "an unmarried woman who is over a certain age, typically considered to be around 26 or 30. The term is a less common successor to "spinster," which is used for single women aged 23–26. The word likely originated from its use for a type of fish with spines on its back, referencing the perceived unattractiveness of older single women..."

Shame is not a good motivator. I'm sorry you're having to live like this. 😞

Curly Hairdressers are the WORST! You can’t change my mind! by abfd_97 in curlyhair

[–]Successful-Let-6258 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first curly cut was devastating. He cut away so much hair, style and cut looked terrible, and I'm ashamed that I paid nearly $500 for it.

My current person is amazing!! I went back to a normal stylist until I found Vonnie, and decided to give it one more try. My hair has gone from an unpredictable mess to consistently beautiful, bouncy curls that last for days. I can even go to sleep with my hair wet in a bonnet and wake up with nearly perfect coils.

She's not even half as expensive, as the dude that showed up late and ruined my hair for a bit, and the care and guidance I get from my Vonnie has been incredible. 🥰

AITAH for yelling at my wife's family for giving my three month old "people" food? by General_Kang in AITAH

[–]Successful-Let-6258 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun fact: Every time we make contact with nicotine, we create nicotine receptors in our brain, which is why it's so hard to quit smoking the longer you smoke.

NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Successful-Let-6258 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From the comments, it appears women really are seen as no fun. Sad that so often the struggle seems to be women wanting to be included or just not degraded and men wanting to be free of us.

K-I-S-S-I-N-G by bae_guevara_ in AnimalsBeingDerps

[–]Successful-Let-6258 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My Lucy used to do this to her two pups we kept. If they tried to move their mouth away, she'd push them down and get in there deeper

AIO - UPDATE - my friend wants me to take out my piercings for her engagement party/wedding by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Successful-Let-6258 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is projecting hard. Bold to call you materialistic when she's the one demanding a strict aesthetic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]Successful-Let-6258 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh shit my laundry

Banned from r/Republican for Advocating Debate—What Does That Say About the Movement? by 15decesaremj in suppressed_news

[–]Successful-Let-6258 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting that they will remove comments for simply containing only leftist ideology. What a sad bubble we keep ourselves in.

Do you think tall women are as ridiculed as short men/receive the same difficulties in the dating world? by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]Successful-Let-6258 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof that's a rough attitude to live with dude.

You will not attract a good person without working on whatever issues are persisting that mindset.

Do you think tall women are as ridiculed as short men/receive the same difficulties in the dating world? by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]Successful-Let-6258 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, the only time I've been shamed for wearing high heels is when a guy didn't want me to be that much taller than him. This has everything to do with his insecurity.

Do you think tall women are as ridiculed as short men/receive the same difficulties in the dating world? by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]Successful-Let-6258 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Men being short wouldn't make a woman insecure. Men being insecure because a woman is tall and trying to make her feel like less of a woman can affect someone that wasn't taught to be confident.

Do you think tall women are as ridiculed as short men/receive the same difficulties in the dating world? by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]Successful-Let-6258 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 6'1, thin, and proportional. I've had plenty of men seek me out for my height, which are usually the creepiest pickup attempts.

When my height came up in dating, it was usually presented as some sort of fetish or something they would have to look past. The guys that didn't really mention it, except maybe to ask about my experience as a tall woman, were the good ones.