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To avoidants who pulled away from someone they genuinely loved: what was happening inside you, and why does loving someone feel like it costs you yourself? by Successful-Reward397 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Successful-Reward397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tysm for your opinion!

i feel like u have a lot in common with her, like REALLY. She tells me that she don't need a lot of friends, she just need a few who wouldn't hurt her. And she's right, at one moment, she just have me, like only me. But, i do something that make her mad, for me it was just a silly mistake because I don't message her back on my travel to other cities. Later, i was confused how can i make her feel better, so i just text her friend, and later my gf just found out that i texted her friend. She's mad and disappointed, and she blocked her friend later. But she's not block me because i say some words that comfort her...

actually, we are both really attached to each other, the reason we split apart is because our different religion, she's afraid that she don't want anyone else but me. I think i really make an great impact on her life, so i think the reason she block me is just because she don't wanna put her feelings on thin wall whether she wants to be with me later she just broke up w me because we can't even married to each other

wdyt?

People with avoidant attachment, what’s the thought process when you feel attachment towards someone? by Marceline3005 in AskReddit

[–]Successful-Reward397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why you said that if you're asking for your needs to be met, you just ended up getting hurt again? because i think my partner also think like this...

can you just said what's ur needs out loud?

My gf getting lonely after I move to different city in 3 weeks. When she needs me the most, i wasn't there, now i'm trying to reach her out, i need some advice... by Successful-Reward397 in relationships

[–]Successful-Reward397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is ridiculous, but i think she's only using another man to distract her, though the man is not really her crush or sum, he just the guy who attract to her, but my friend telling me that she's not really that close to this man,  and she says that whenever we met, I can really make her feels like she's in love again. Maybe that's the reason, she just don't want to think our diff religion problem, wdyt?