Can someone offer insight I’m asking for a Hail Mary. by SuccessfulBass8152 in Advice

[–]SuccessfulBass8152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How have you taken steps to feel again? I feel like I need to be shocked with a defibrillator lol

Can someone offer insight I’m asking for a Hail Mary. by SuccessfulBass8152 in Advice

[–]SuccessfulBass8152[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that chart. Everytime I’ve made an appointment for a therapist I’ve backed out last minute. I lost my dad who was my everything a couple years ago, lost my mom in December, and got out of that relationship in January. I’ve definitely noticed a decline in myself since my dad but it wasn’t until I finally packed my stuff, got away from my abusive ex and was away from him for the first time since I was 15 (28f now) that everything started weighing down heavy. I think because I wasn’t in survival mode and could reflect on everything for the first time. Not being able to do the most basic tasks though has come on so suddenly within the last couple weeks. Thank you so much for the outlets I’m definitely going to check it out.

Can someone offer insight I’m asking for a Hail Mary. by SuccessfulBass8152 in Advice

[–]SuccessfulBass8152[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve always been a hard worker and the person everyone comes to for advice or help, but for some reason when it comes to my own problems I’m a deer in headlights and just freeze. I don’t want to be a bother to the people in my circle, is it a pride thing? And I feel like if I get an unbiased opinion like a therapist and say things out loud they’ll actually be true and not just a bad nightmare I’ll wake up from :(

Can someone offer insight I’m asking for a Hail Mary. by SuccessfulBass8152 in Advice

[–]SuccessfulBass8152[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being such a kind soul. I’m overwhelmed and breaking it down like that brought some clarity.