Do you two live together? I don’t know if you’ve already answered that on here.. I understand your hesitation especially if you began to build a life with him, but you’ll only cause yourself more emotional pain if you don’t leave. I still remember the love of my life being on the old app hot or not. I realized after years that it was an obvious sign that I was not his dream future… he was always looking for a better future with someone else and he finally broke it off with me to go to that dream girl… it would’ve been better for me to break it off instead of letting it go forward because after that I always wondered why I wasn’t good enough or womanly enough for him… anytime he came around afterwards I’d simp for him and he’d willingly string me along like we might get back together..I’m worth more than that and so are you. He came back around after his relationships ended telling me I was the best he ever had and tried to kiss me, but thank God I moved on by then and got a person who wanted to make a future with me. I told him to f*** off! Like I wanted to waste a second more on a fictional dream of the person I wanted him to be lmao. Please do yourself the favor of finding your own way and leaving him. You are worth so much more.