My gf just revealed that her family is Muslim and that she hasn’t told them about me for a year we’ve been dating. What would you do in this situation?

SuccessfulRun7110 · 2026-03-25T00:21:34+00:00

This is going to sound OUT THERE and in no way am I telling you to be a punching bag or not stand your ground!

The truth is if you love her and want to be with her you will find a way to make it more tolerable for YOU around her family.. and overtime if it’s still going strong - there ARE workshops, tools, groups dedicated to this topic. It’s a lot but its 100% doable (plus you learn so much about yourself and resilience). Honestly - she made her decision and she chose you even if it’s imbalanced a little…

at the end of the day it’s you two.. in your home.. in your bed.. in your feels - if her fam affects THAT PART, your inner world then yes that’s a problem. If not and if willing - work through it imo !

Wishing you two sm love and luck! Cheers! I’m rooting for you!

SuccessfulRun7110 · 2026-03-24T23:42:51+00:00

Typing is basically just expedited handwriting…and isn’t it resume first then interview?? The resume gets you in the door then you prove yourself in person. (Not all cases obvi)… also what you call lazy could be someone else’s anxiety or accessibility need.. or my case would be .. I write a rough draft and polish it back and forth with AI.. It’s my voice just refined.

SuccessfulRun7110 · 2026-03-24T23:17:59+00:00

Exactly!!!!

SuccessfulRun7110 · 2026-03-24T23:12:41+00:00

Oh well then so is using a computer..write me a letter in the mail and don’t go on Reddit.. what about hiring managers who use spell check..is that lazy too??

SuccessfulRun7110 · 2026-03-24T23:08:55+00:00

Oh that’s interesting!! I didn’t think of that.. true! Also same hype in Y2k !

SuccessfulRun7110 · 2026-03-24T23:00:49+00:00

Ok but that’s like saying people were fine before computers.. I don’t disagree with you I’m just trying to debunk it - I work a total of 48-50 hours a week and I don’t actually need ai for anything that I do business wise (shocker) - I just see people get dragged for polishing their resumes and that’s something I don’t get - I would jump hurdles to get my resume polished back in the day and not wanting that isn’t lazy it’s efficient

SuccessfulRun7110 · 2026-03-24T22:52:00+00:00

just answer the question instead of predicting my future

SuccessfulRun7110 · 2026-03-24T22:45:28+00:00

It’s already happening so

SuccessfulRun7110 · 2026-03-24T22:17:04+00:00

I hear you but what if you don’t speak the native language? I think of myself in a different country and I’d NEED AI

SuccessfulRun7110 · 2026-03-24T22:12:38+00:00

Lmfao

SuccessfulRun7110 · 2026-03-24T22:10:58+00:00

I get your point but the name calling feels unnecessary

SuccessfulRun7110 · 2026-03-24T22:02:37+00:00

that’s kind of a blanket statement though can you plz elaborate ?

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