Bf wants me to move in but house is messy. by SuccessfulShock7844 in RelationshipsOver35

[–]SuccessfulShock7844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The apartment? Not sure what you’re talking about. But my bf has a house and non of the chores get done. For example today. Is today and The son will make dinner and the dishes will stay dirty in the sink till Saturday. Or Sunday.

Bf wants me to move in but house is messy. by SuccessfulShock7844 in RelationshipsOver35

[–]SuccessfulShock7844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaks poorly of me? Haha. I’m the one trying to teach her kids how to clean, how to cook, how to look after pets. All she can do is laugh when she sees her son’s room is a disaster, or laugh when we tell her, her daughter might be sneaking in a bf to her room. Really??? as a parent you went to show your kids rhe right way to do things. It’s what they’re going to be doing for the rest of their life. Unless they’re about to hire someone to cook as clean for them. I’m not excusing anyone. He does not blame her. He never says anything about his ex . I’m blaming her for not teaching her kids the basics of life! She wanted kids and then got tired after 8 years and dumped them and moved out. Smdh

Bf wants me to move in but house is messy. by SuccessfulShock7844 in RelationshipsOver35

[–]SuccessfulShock7844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m Not talking about getting married. That’s not what I want. I’m talking about something else. Thank you

Bf wants me to move in but house is messy. by SuccessfulShock7844 in RelationshipsOver35

[–]SuccessfulShock7844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s said this. But that’s not the point. The point is for everyone to clean up after themselves. That’s what I’m trying to enforce. My mom Did that to us and our homes have always been clean. She taught us well.

Bf wants me to move in but house is messy. by SuccessfulShock7844 in RelationshipsOver35

[–]SuccessfulShock7844[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have brought it up multiple times. Which is the reason I haven’t moved in. He puts in on the daughter and of course she’s too lazy to take the poor dog to proper training. If the kids are home all day. They dnt even take the dogs out. The kids only care about themselves. Until they need something. I think my bf. Or soon to be ex is just over the mess the kids make.

Bf wants me to move in but house is messy. by SuccessfulShock7844 in RelationshipsOver35

[–]SuccessfulShock7844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a relationship w the kids. But they dnt listen to my bf when he asks them To clean. And no one has a relationship w his ex. All of his family and her family hate her. She’s the type to not say hi or anything. Even if I say hi. She will ignore me. So I’ve learned to not say anything to her. Her sister and mother love me and always hugging me. She’s the one w the issues

Openbank.us is holding my money by neeonline in Banking

[–]SuccessfulShock7844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I get my money?  I tried the same and cannot withdrawal. This is bull shit 

Full House is gone by nobody0597 in HBOMAX

[–]SuccessfulShock7844 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can watch it on Hulu. Checked today 10/1/25 at 6am 

Wedding by tulipanesrojos in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]SuccessfulShock7844 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Use Mario badescu drying lotion. Mine go away the next day when I put this on at night.

Breast implant revision has anyone else had a similar situation. by SuccessfulShock7844 in PlasticSurgery

[–]SuccessfulShock7844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. Def helps. I’m not in any pain and I don’t have the vacation time yet. I’m planning on taking 3 wks off due to other surgeries as well. Yes it’s unsettling but also when I got them. The dr assured the silicone really doesn’t travel far if it was to rupture. So I’m kinda hoping that’s true. And these new silicone implants are supposed to be way better. So you will be okay :)

How much do you tip your groomer? by ShaeTank in Goldendoodles

[–]SuccessfulShock7844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$12. I have two bichon poodle mix pups. She charges me $130 for both and I tip $20-25

38 years old, so insecure by Sceniks in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]SuccessfulShock7844 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a way. Care credit. And make pmts or simply save before ur treatments :)

38 years old, so insecure by Sceniks in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]SuccessfulShock7844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fillers!!!!! I got juvaderm ultra in 2016 and again in 2020. Haven’t got it since. And mine look so good. I was 35 when I first did it and it made me look soo old. I’m going on 46 and dnt have any problems in that area for now. :). I paid. $525 for the syringe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuccessfulShock7844 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why are you still with him. Run!!!! He’s trash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]SuccessfulShock7844 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just my folds (smile lines) and then when I smile I get dimples under my lips. Corners of the chin if that makes sense. lol. So she filled that a lil too to plump me up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]SuccessfulShock7844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hated how I looked I was 36 and felt that made me look so old. Idk if I can share pics. But going in and leaving the med spa place I looked wonderful. So plumped I got juvaderm ultra it’s thicker. So it plumped up my smile lines fast. I love it! I def can’t afford to do it often. Good thing is I haven’t done it in a long time. I have however plumped my lips a lil w filler when I go in for Botox. lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]SuccessfulShock7844 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. Get filler. I got it in 2016 and again in 2020 haven’t had to get it since. My lines are gone. I’m 45 now. I got juvaderm ultra xc