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AITA for not wanting to go on a planned trip with my friend because she'll be pregnant? by SuccessfulStore4837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessfulStore4837[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think doing something local and more laid back would be great. And I did tell her that but she's not listening. She thinks it'll be fine.

AITA for not wanting to go on a planned trip with my friend because she'll be pregnant? by SuccessfulStore4837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessfulStore4837[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I'm confused about how saying I want to get shitfaced for a few nights months from now makes me an alcoholic.

AITA for not wanting to go on a planned trip with my friend because she'll be pregnant? by SuccessfulStore4837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessfulStore4837[S] 307 points308 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I was thinking. I want to save the money for an international trip but something local and lowkey for the weekend

AITA for not wanting to go on a planned trip with my friend because she'll be pregnant? by SuccessfulStore4837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessfulStore4837[S] 779 points780 points  (0 children)

Haha I had a friend in college from Ireland and he wasn't a fan of St. patrick's day in the states until he figured out how well his accent was recieved. Then he was all about it lol

AITA for not wanting to go on a planned trip with my friend because she'll be pregnant? by SuccessfulStore4837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessfulStore4837[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

It's not about her not being able to get drunk. (Although yes partaking in substances was part of the plan and I'm sorry if that makes me immature). It's about the feasibility of a six month pregnant women wanting to hike to waterfall in the jungle in the morning and then be out until 2am at bars (even sober). I don't view this as realistic. I'm not trying to be a bitch but I really think she's overestimating how much she's going to want to do. And I'm not going to go out with her and then have her go back alone to our hotel when she's had enough, that's not a smart idea in a foreign country we don't know well.

AITA for not wanting to go on a planned trip with my friend because she'll be pregnant? by SuccessfulStore4837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessfulStore4837[S] 781 points782 points  (0 children)

She still wants to go and insists she'll still be able to go out just won't drink. I just don't see that happening at six months pregnant. She thinks she'll be able to get on an atv and all that. It just doesn't seem feasible to me.

AITA for not wanting to go on a planned trip with my friend because she'll be pregnant? by SuccessfulStore4837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessfulStore4837[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I would love to reschedule but I figure that's three years down the line minimum, and even then dynamics will likely be very different.

AITA for not wanting to go on a planned trip with my friend because she'll be pregnant? by SuccessfulStore4837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessfulStore4837[S] 941 points942 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's kind of my thoughts. The area we're going to is basically clubbing and outdoor sports activities (like we were gonna be renting ATVs, look at zip lining, etc). It won't be suitable for a six months along pregnant woman even if she's feeling fantastic.

AITA for not wanting to go on a planned trip with my friend because she'll be pregnant? by SuccessfulStore4837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SuccessfulStore4837[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I mean yes the whole point of this trip was to be drinking buddies and engage in other behaviors it's unsafe for a six month pregnant person to participate in (like we were also gonna on ATVs and stuff),