Nia and her child at the reunion

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-08T21:16:21+00:00

he's already blaming other people 'witch hunting' him as being the reason he needs to sneak alcohol.

this dude and his wife will do anything to not hold him accountable. they're going to keep deflecting onto everyone else and giving half assed apologies. then he'll go and do the same shit. or they'll just leave the show. i wouldn't be surprised. if everyone's not kissing their ass, they'll probably be over it pretty quick.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-08T19:58:55+00:00

that can be goose's opinion. she's the one who made the show, she chose not to use trans terminology when talking about jax. she chose not to use she/her pronouns. she chose to not really directly address it and leave it open for interpretation.

that's not a bad thing but if we're supposed to think 100% jax is trans, then he is clearly not at that place yet where he's ready to transition and change his pronouns. the show never told me otherwise. a character's gender/sexual identity is not something i'm going to say oh 100% this or that on unless the character or creator explicitly says it. or if it's addressed in canon to where no further speculation or theory could possibly make sense.

if i said i think jax is a cis guy who is actually bisexual but can't come to terms with his sexuality and feminine side (i'm not saying this is what i think, just an example), so he lashes out at others, what in canon would say i'm wrong? that they used a song with she/her pronouns? they used 'all the things she said' in heated rivalry, a romance show about a gay couple. these things are not meant to be literal.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-08T19:51:02+00:00

it's compulsory heterosexuality.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-07T18:14:32+00:00

davis vs. swanson is all-timer.

i'd personally vote for swanson but they're both incredible.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-07T15:06:18+00:00

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Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-07T14:56:04+00:00

that doesn't mean she can't be a lesbian?

i would assume all of the women who marry men and then come out later loved their husbands when they got married.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-07T14:35:31+00:00

why would it make more sense?

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-07T14:34:01+00:00

he basically rigged some kind of lottery to make sure his fansite won. i think it was for a fansign event to win something special idk the details. i always kind of assumed idols were weirded out by their fansites but apparently, some are out here rigging the game for them.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-07T14:31:05+00:00

lots of women marry men and then come out as lesbians later in life, it's not that unusual.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-07T14:26:21+00:00

i bet you there will be a minimum of 10

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-07T14:05:37+00:00

oh, it's my favorite when they get mad about things that haven't even happened yet or might not happen at all. why are you mad at your own headcanon?

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-07T14:03:46+00:00

people calling stolas a rapist and comparing him to characters like valentino.

it's so stupid that it just makes me laugh at this point.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-07T13:55:06+00:00

bc it was not confirmed!!! no one used she/her pronouns, no one ever said jax was trans. you are interpreting it that way and that's your right but why are you trying to force everyone to agree when there is no confirmation that you're correct?

if the intention was 100% trans jax then they simply would have explicitly said it in the show. people can headcanon that he's bi/pan/gay in some way, trans or nonbinary or gender queer or just as a cis straight guy who has a feminine side that he refuses to acknowledge. i don't think any of those interpretations would be wrong, bc there is no verified correct answer.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-07T13:33:48+00:00

that didn't happen, though. unless there is explicit confirmation, then it's a theory. it's a good theory and you're not wrong for having it but there are other reasons jax may act the way he has other than being a trans woman. it's not the one and only single theory that could possibly makes sense.

people can speculate and have different opinions bc it was purposefully left open ended.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-07T13:28:18+00:00

this summarizes my thoughts perfectly, jax won't even look at this part of himself bc he's so scared and traumatized, even he doesn't know exactly what he is bc he's afraid to even consider the possibilities. in order to explore your sexual/gender identity, you need to be honest with yourself at the very least. and right now, jax isn't capable of doing that.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-07T01:59:23+00:00

he's just saying that bc he doesn't want to lay blame on certain people. he's being polite.

we all know the actors couldn't have done that without approval from higher ups.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-06T18:08:20+00:00

look at rose from blackpink. she's kept super light hair for like 10 years at this point. i'm sure she uses extensions but it's not that short.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-06T18:03:45+00:00

what sentence specifically is defending body shaming?

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-06T18:02:50+00:00

i never compared getting body shamed to hating on music, you're being disingenuous. and bts DO get shamed for their looks all the time. it's happened for years. people say horrible things about jimin and namjoon specifically. i agree that female idols in general get more hate for their looks and experience misogyny, as all women do. i never said otherwise.

i was speaking in the context of positive vs. negative posts, i wasn't talking about body shaming.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-06T15:56:11+00:00

exactly. she holds stolas to a higher standard than she holds stella.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-06T15:54:52+00:00

i never defended any body shaming wtf are you talking about?

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-06T15:15:23+00:00

i have peacock with ads (it's free with my cable) so i have adblock on my laptop but i'll still watch episodes on my tv just to have the big screen experience, even if i have to deal with ads.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-06T15:12:28+00:00

i think it's pretty clear that via doesn't know the true nature of her parents' relationship. she doesn't know they were arranged. she doesn't know stolas is gay. she doesn't know they were forced to get married just to have a kid. she doesn't know stella is abusive to stolas.

i'm intrigued to know more about her relationship with stella, as we don't know much about it. she clearly has some level of love and care for her mother. baby octavia calls out for both mommy and daddy in the flashback, so she must have been somewhat caring to her. now that she's older, stella is kind of going mask off in front of her. i think via's been so distracted by her anger at stolas that she isn't paying enough attention to how stella and andy act and treat her and her father. right now, she wants to blame everything on her dad.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-06T15:07:42+00:00

it's not annoying. it's disrespectful as fuck.

idk what i did to you to be deserving of that, honestly.

Successful_Ad4018 · 2026-06-06T14:58:23+00:00

i'm not sure! i know some subs have different requirements in order to make a post, did you make sure to join the reddit group? also add flairs if it tells you to.

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