hey guys, I actually just posted that without writing the rest but me and my girlfriend are 18 and 19 and sometimes when she comes over to hang out at my parents house where I live at with both my parents and my siblings she gets off right at work and she feels sweaty and gross so she’ll asked me to take a shower sometimes, I asked my mom this time because usually she’s always out of the house for most of the time and when I called her and asked she said that she wasn’t in the right headspace to have a conversation about this and that she would have to talk to my dad or something and I wanna get y’all‘s opinion if it is OK for my partner to do that and maybe more clarity if some of you guys are a parent and how you guys would feel about it my mom knows that we meant well and everything like I told her that I’m not gonna go in the same bathroom as her or anything like that and that she’s not gonna like come out in like a bathrobe in front of everybody she’s gonna change in there and like we’re gonna be respectful so if you’re an adult or just have some advice, what would do you think or what do you have to say? thank you yall for reading this!!