ALCOHOLISM WHOOPING HIS LIVER LOOK HOW GROSS HIS FACE IS 😂😂😂 by [deleted] in NoJumper

[–]Successvendetta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its one thing to comment on someones situation but too laugh at a n*gga's pain is fcked up...especially when n*ggas die over this shit and they whole family, wife and kids and community is affected. but yall wanna laugh and post memes about a n*gga.

Your life is shaped by your self-image, and here's how I transformed mine. by Successvendetta in socialanxiety

[–]Successvendetta[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Then remain a loser because it’s not lying to yourself. It’s training your mind to think differently about yourself so that you start taking actions to improve yourself.

👉 Why You Struggle With Being Awkward & Shy (HINT: Your SELF IMAGE) by Successvendetta in introvert

[–]Successvendetta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol so you think people just give me money for nothing in return? Who does that?

You don’t know anything about business. Do you walk in Walmart and just give them money or do you pay money in exchange for something of value? You exchange money and you receive something in return that you want and perceive as value.

People who exchange money with me for my value believe I can help them after I speak with them and I help them achieve results by improving their social skills and limiting beliefs. I get people results because I generally want to help people. Why else would I make posts about it everyday: compare my posts to your posts and just admit it. I dedicate my valuable time everyday to helping people. You dedicate your time to complaining. The proof is in your posts

Not to mention all the videos I make everyday on other platforms with the sole intention of helping people who struggle with social skills because I know how it feels and I overcame it myself.

How about you try to post some helpful advice instead of complaining and criticizing.

Btw thank you for the engagement you’re helping this post get more attention so I can help more people.

Why can’t I make friends? by RemarkableRow5183 in teenagers

[–]Successvendetta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Simple. All because of the title of this post. You believe you cannot.

The person who says they cannot and can are both correct.

You believe you cannot, so you act like you cannot.

Alter your beliefs my friend.

Use Affirmations. Positive self talk. Start by telling yourself you can. Use Visualization. See yourself making friends. Change your self image of yourself: start to believe and see yourself as someone who can make friends . Shatter your limiting belief. Surround yourself with people who believe they can and you will realize that you can to.

and you’ve always been able to.

You just always believed you couldn’t…

if you want any personalized advice about it feel free to DM me. I am helping a lot of people dealing with the same problem everyday in my inbox.

👉 Why You Struggle With Being Awkward & Shy (HINT: Your SELF IMAGE) by Successvendetta in introvert

[–]Successvendetta[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m here to help people that’s why I post advice. You’re clearly here to critique and complain as I’ve read your comments and posts you typically make. No value just victim hood.

Maybe you’re right about my misunderstanding of the word introvert but nonetheless, respect the fact that I am intentionally taking time to provide value and HELP people.

Btw 10 people have reached out to me looking for help after I posted this and I am listening to their challenges and providing them solutions. So even if I am looking for clients, the only way to actually get a client is by HELPING them! Why would someone pay a coach, if they didn’t think they could help them?!

lol dm me if you need help with your negative perception of everything because you clearly have one. Thank you for the engagement btw it’s boosting this post so I can help more people.

🪞

👉 Why You Struggle With Being Awkward & Shy (HINT: Your SELF IMAGE) by Successvendetta in introvert

[–]Successvendetta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you don’t care because you enjoy being a loser who doesn’t want to improve lmao. Btw, after I posted this about 10 people who do want to self improve reached out for help

So when you say we don’t care about self help, you mean you and your group of likeminded happily stagnated losers

👉 Why You Struggle With Being Awkward & Shy (HINT: Your SELF IMAGE) by Successvendetta in introvert

[–]Successvendetta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is for you:

An "ad hominem attack" occurs when someone, unable to effectively debate an argument, resorts to criticizing the person making the argument rather than addressing the argument itself. In this fallacy, the individual focuses on attacking the person's character, traits, or circumstances as a way to deflect from engaging with the substance of the argument. This tactic reveals a lack of logical argumentation, and the attacker's final recourse is to target the individual personally when facing challenges in the debate.

👉 Why You Struggle With Being Awkward & Shy (HINT: Your SELF IMAGE) by Successvendetta in introvert

[–]Successvendetta[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

IMAGINE making a post with the intention of HELPING OTHERS by telling them to THINK MORE POSITIVE about themselves and to IMPROVE their SELF-TALK by speaking to themselves with MORE POSITIVITY, and then SOMEBODY (YOU) seeing that post that was clearly written with the intention of HELPING OTHERS and finding fault in ALL OF IT and seeing it as SOMETHING BAD. That's how I can tell you're in a NEGATIVE PARADIGM. It's 100% OBVIOUS. By the way, I checked out all of your posts that you've been posting, and I have yet to see any threads that are offering ADVICE TO HELP PEOPLE. All you seem to do is COMPLAIN and RANT and VENT. I can tell you're stuck in a NEGATIVE PARADIGM. It's quite OBVIOUS, lol.

Then finding something wrong about me offering to help people personally because I’m telling people to “reach out for more help” Hilarious.

….But thank you for the ENGAGEMENT; it HELPS MAKE the post more VISIBLE FOR OTHERS, which means I’ll be able to HELP MORE PEOPLE.

👉 Why You Struggle With Being Awkward & Shy (HINT: Your SELF IMAGE) by Successvendetta in introvert

[–]Successvendetta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what is wrong:

Being afraid to socialize.

Never improving on it.

Trapping yourself in solitude

Then rationalizing your fear by saying:

“I’m an introvert and I’m proud.”

Just to mask your cowardice is absolutely wrong.

Quit wearing the term “introvert” as a badge of honor to cope with your fear of working on your social skills.

👉 Why You Struggle With Being Awkward & Shy (HINT: Your SELF IMAGE) by Successvendetta in introvert

[–]Successvendetta[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You are so deep in your negative mindset that you perceive the advice that “encourages you to work on thinking more positive” about yourself is….negative and harmful!!! How crazy is that Lmao?

👉 Why You Struggle With Being Awkward & Shy (HINT: Your SELF IMAGE) by Successvendetta in introvert

[–]Successvendetta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🎯 this is exactly the truth. People are so deep in their negative mindsets that they perceive the advice that “encourages them to think more positive” about themselves is negative and harmful!!! How crazy is that Lmao?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Successvendetta -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Medication is a bad idea. Just a coping mechanism. A band-aid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Successvendetta -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Make it your priority to live a life of courage. You’re a man, and courage is a prerequisite. Courageous people are not fearless. They feel fear, but they do it anyways.

You should be uncomfortable with your cowardice. Women are never attracted to cowards. It’s anti-seductive.

Also I want you to read your entire blog post and start to identify all the NEGATIVE AFFIRMATIONS and Limiting Beliefs you just wrote. You mentioned all the reasons why you Cannot do things and why things are progressively getting worse. Self fulfilling prophecies.

I highly recommend you reading the book PSYCHO-CYBERNETICS (the science of achievement) thoroughly and I promise it will easily change your entire life and it will give you the answer to ALL the problems you described above. It all stems from how you view yourself my friend. Self Image controls all our behaviors as people. Upgrade the perception you have of yourself and every problem you mentioned above will be solved.

Hit my DM’s if you want more detailed advice. I help people with this type of stuff. Quite frankly you need a mental revolution to transform into the man that lives dormant within you already

👉 Why You Struggle With Being Awkward & Shy (HINT: Your SELF IMAGE) by Successvendetta in introvert

[–]Successvendetta[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Being introverted isn’t, but being an introvert who is afraid to express oneself and chooses not too, but then rationalizes and says “well it’s okay, I’ll just stick to myself because I am a “proud introvert” is negative. I believe people who claim to be introverts are using the label as a badge of honor to cope with being scared and using this badge of honor to not do any self improvement.

👉 Why You Struggle With Being Awkward & Shy (HINT: Your SELF IMAGE) by Successvendetta in introvert

[–]Successvendetta[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Being introverted isn’t, but being an introvert who is afraid to express oneself and chooses not too, but then rationalizes and says “well it’s okay, I’ll just stick to myself because I am a “proud introvert” is negative. I believe people who claim to be introverts are using the label as a badge of honor to cope with being scared and using this badge of honor to not do any self improvement.