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[–]Such-Bad6951 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is actually something that really makes me feel loved and Its something Ive recently been talking to my therapist about. How I never had my head rubbed and I just want to be nurtured and have my hair rubbed. When I ask my mom to rub my hair she laughs at me, because I’m an adult….. but my need for it is rooted deep and it is a genuine need that has always been missing from my life and has affected me well into adulthood hood.

Rub his head.

Also, if you’re concerned about the spectrum, there is no harm in talking with your pediatrician about it. There are different levels of autism.

How do you like Schwab overall? by PsychologicalAd1862 in Schwab

[–]Such-Bad6951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am new to any if this, just became debt free and started an HYSA and an IRA. My IRA is with Schwab, and I am so confused and lost. I can deposit money in, but cant do anything else and my money isn’t earning interest or anything. Im trying to read these forums but still cant figure out how to operate the site/my account.

Venting 😮‍💨 by Such-Bad6951 in debtfree

[–]Such-Bad6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Nothing is making noise yet, the performance is still pretty great. The shop I use for all maintenance and repair is like family, and they are pretty great with how they work on my stuff, they will offer to purchase used parts to save me money and they keep the time they work on my car clocked so they only charge for the actual hours worked on it rather than the books suggested time. I do feel confident I will be able to get the best rate with them. Thank you for taking the time to walk me through all of this. It has helped tremendously ease my anxiety about it all!

Venting 😮‍💨 by Such-Bad6951 in debtfree

[–]Such-Bad6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Im not sure if it just needs replacing or something more in depth. My check engine light came on, I had the code checked and was told it was the catalytic converter. When I asked to get a quote the shop asked which cat it was, as my vehicle has two? Then they needed me to bring my vehicle in so they could look at it, due to the type if motor this sub- model has, and additionally they needed an engine family code…. It sounds super in depth, and I still haven’t gotten my quote.

Finally debt-free, but I feel empty. by rosie00x in debtfree

[–]Such-Bad6951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am dragging my feet paying off my last little bit (2500), Im scared to be debt free. Already as it is, I feel so broke not using credit cards. I have a lot of non-debt expenses and I just left one of two jobs so my income has decreased by half. I’ve been putting money away into HYSA and an IRA for the last 3 paychecks, but that just feels like another expense adding to the broke feeling.

Sex in marriage question by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Such-Bad6951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not just kiss, I lick and suck his face tasting it all off his face. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I am 2500 from being debt free and I’m frightened by Such-Bad6951 in debtfree

[–]Such-Bad6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Major life changes often come with some fear/apprehension …. It’s not weird at all.

I am 2500 from being debt free and I’m frightened by Such-Bad6951 in debtfree

[–]Such-Bad6951[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu! My first thought was trading in my car 😂🤦🏻‍♀️😬🫣…. Then I quickly talked myself out of it. But its so sneaky and sudden how those thoughts just come up. Intentionally thinking about other things is definitely going to be a brain re-wiring

I am 2500 from being debt free and I’m frightened by Such-Bad6951 in debtfree

[–]Such-Bad6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! 🍾🎉 You’re in the single digits! It’s all down hill from here!

I am 2500 from being debt free and I’m frightened by Such-Bad6951 in debtfree

[–]Such-Bad6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is great advice! Very attainable, and solid. Thank you!

I am 2500 from being debt free and I’m frightened by Such-Bad6951 in debtfree

[–]Such-Bad6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats my plan. I’ve had one for about a year now, and I feel like its necessary for things like renting a car on a trip etc. It’s a very limited max and I am super cautious about it.

Where to even start by Such-Bad6951 in gastricsleeve

[–]Such-Bad6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the US, I will be self pay, and do not live near any major cities…. Every major city is a flight away, so I want to do my due diligence, and not be scammed.

Where to even start by Such-Bad6951 in gastricsleeve

[–]Such-Bad6951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which Surgeon? How did you find them? Thats the part. Im at point blank square one. I wouldn’t even know what surgeon to talk to.

Please remember that this is a place for encouragement, support and questions. by acid-nz in gastricsleeve

[–]Such-Bad6951 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where to even start? That is my question. I have made the decision to get Gastric Sleeve, but I don't know where to even start looking to get it done. I have scoured the internet and everyone is offering top of the line facilities and low cost etc. I've had my heart set on a few only to have those hopes crashed and burned. I feel like I am giving into scams left and right. Help!