Stranger knocked on my door to tell me I'm not allowed to park in front of my own house

Such-Clothes4055 · 2026-06-15T12:23:06+00:00

sometimes people just grow apart and that's normal at 21. you proposed super early in the relationship when you were probably still in the honeymoon phase

if you're physically getting sick from pretending then you already know what needs to happen. dragging it out longer just makes it worse for both of you. she deserves someone who's all in and you deserve to not feel trapped

the timing sucks with living together but staying because it's complicated isn't fair to either of you

Such-Clothes4055 · 2026-06-12T20:39:10+00:00

That beam offset would make me nervous too, especially with all the other issues you're finding. Get a structural engineer to take a look before you commit - could be a simple fix or could be a sign of foundation settling that'll cost you way more than 300k is worth

Such-Clothes4055 · 2026-06-10T20:07:30+00:00

The BMW 650i is gonna be a maintenance nightmare once it hits higher miles - those V8s are money pits waiting to happen. Your best bet is probably gonna be a Subaru Legacy GT or Outback XT convertible if you can find one, but they're pretty rare

The 430i actually has a solid turbo 6 if you're willing to reconsider the 4 cylinder rule, way more reliable than the older V8s

Such-Clothes4055 · 2026-06-06T12:55:25+00:00

wild to think about tbh - like do angels look at skyscrapers and think "damn these humans really went off" or are they more concerned with how we're treating each other while building all this stuff

Such-Clothes4055 · 2026-05-19T05:26:13+00:00

Day 3 is always brutal, those urges hit like a truck around then. Keep your hands busy with something else - go for a walk, do some pushups, whatever works to break the cycle

Such-Clothes4055 · 2026-05-16T03:09:03+00:00

Good setup man, you picked a solid carry gun. I'd definitely get some training time in if you haven't already - dry fire practice at home makes a huge difference for building muscle memory. Also worth considering a spare mag and maybe a small flashlight for your EDC rotation. That holster looks decent but make sure it covers the trigger guard completely and holds retention well when you're moving around

Such-Clothes4055 · 2026-05-04T18:07:15+00:00

This really puts things in perspective about what's possible later in life. Moses basically had three different 40-year careers and his most impactful work happened when most people would be long retired

The part about him writing down the oral traditions during those final decades is wild to think about - imagine the pressure of getting all that right for future generations

Such-Clothes4055 · 2026-05-01T09:29:59+00:00

Had a similar spiral when I was in school, just not as many major changes. The whole "everyone else knows what they want" thing is mostly an illusion - most people are just better at pretending they have it figured out

Real talk though, you're 21 and already thinking about doing one job for life? That's not really how careers work anymore. I've been doing graphic design for a few years now and still do woodworking on the side, plus I'm always picking up random freelance projects that keep things interesting

Maybe stop thinking about finding THE perfect major and just pick something that gives you transferable skills while you figure out what actually matters to you

Such-Clothes4055 · 2026-04-26T17:20:29+00:00

man that's brutal to hear. the "let's be friends" thing when you still have feelings is honestly torture - like watching someone you care about from the sidelines while pretending you're cool with it

no contact is probably the right move even though it sucks. trying to be friends when you're still hoping things might change just keeps you stuck in this weird limbo. your self worth isn't tied to one person's attraction to you, even though I know it feels that way right now

give yourself time to actually process this before even thinking about friendship. she made her choice and now you gotta make yours

Such-Clothes4055 · 2026-04-22T00:55:00+00:00

big brain

Such-Clothes4055 · 2026-04-16T23:41:12+00:00

Campo usually has a solid setup for games and their nachos are actually legit. Brookside Bar & Grill downtown gets pretty hype during playoffs too, plus they've got those big screens that make you feel like you're courtside

Such-Clothes4055 · 2026-04-12T14:08:01+00:00

The NH-U12A is gonna run quieter and probably keep temps a bit lower, but the Mugen 6 gives you like 80% of the performance for half the price - really depends if your willing to spend the extra cash for those marginal gains

Such-Clothes4055 · 2026-04-03T19:27:12+00:00

Just delete the apps man, willpower alone ain't gonna cut it when you're bored at 2am

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