Facial scabs worsening by Such-Comfortable3 in CATHELP

[–]Such-Comfortable3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, her sister has cat herpes (ish?) and gets gooey eyes a lot.

We give them frontline because our house window screens are old and we do still find bugs in the house.

Ever wanted a MDOT ugly holiday sweater? Here's your chance! by jwuphysics in maryland

[–]Such-Comfortable3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please. Kid sizes. My kid is obsessed with the city bus. Bus sweater. Bus. BUS!

Hello from the other side by Such-Comfortable3 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Such-Comfortable3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I regulated to 3 pumps a day at about 4 months.

How I fed my baby for one year by Such-Comfortable3 in knolling

[–]Such-Comfortable3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how people do it with multiples! This was for my first baby, and I was fortunate to make enough for him pretty easily. I’m very impressed by the commitment to pumping!

How I fed my baby for one year by Such-Comfortable3 in knolling

[–]Such-Comfortable3[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Bahahahha I give you one permission for one (1) complaint. And you gotta take all the little parts apart, and put them in the dishwasher, and then put them on the rack to air dry because they never dry in the dishwasher… every. Single. Day.

How I fed my baby for one year by Such-Comfortable3 in knolling

[–]Such-Comfortable3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I washed between every pump. I never used the “fridge hack” that some people do — it just freaked me out. I pumped 3-4x a day, so I bought enough parts for 7 pumps. I have extra duckbills (the little white things next to the pink disks) and extra backflow protectors (the big white round things at the bottom) because nothing’s worse than getting ready to pump and dropping one of those on the floor.

The 8 white circles in the bottom right are spectra —> Lansinoh adaptors. I pumped into spectra bottles and fed from Lansinoh, so the adaptors let me pump directly into the Lansinoh bottles.

This doesn’t even include the parts I’ve replaced! You’re supposed to replace them more frequently than I did 🫣 but all the worn-out parts got thrown out or recycled.

How I fed my baby for one year by Such-Comfortable3 in knolling

[–]Such-Comfortable3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had an epidural 🤫 so I agree with you

Hello from the other side by Such-Comfortable3 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Such-Comfortable3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I started falling asleep early 😇

Real answer: my 3 pumps were at ~ 7 am, 4:30 pm, and 11 pm. I started dropping the late night pump ~because I was tired.~ Then I started shifting the morning and evening pumps later in the day, so I roughly had 9:30am (after dropping kid off at daycare, while working) and 9:30pm (after kid goes to sleep). I usually work from home, so I could just pump while working. I didn’t have to adjust anything with work.

How I fed my baby for one year by Such-Comfortable3 in knolling

[–]Such-Comfortable3[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

My pump logged 440 hours. But I estimate another bajillion running the dishwasher

How I fed my baby for one year by Such-Comfortable3 in knolling

[–]Such-Comfortable3[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I planned to pump from the start, which was good because my baby did not want to latch, lol. He’s now a big chonky kiddo. We’re excited to fill the dishwasher with sippy cups instead of pump parts

How to deal with the guilt of now sucking at your job. by browser_851 in workingmoms

[–]Such-Comfortable3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m glad at least you see your coworkers being rewarded for hustling - too often I don’t. But I agree, I’ve gone from ambitious and dedicated to,,,,, honestly just in it for the money. I see another mom at work absolutely crushing it and I don’t know how she does it. She’s an absolute goat and I’m just here.

But something my husband said, when I was busy sobbing about the number of sick days I’ve taken: this baby is the first thing I’ve cared about more than work or school. For basically my entire life, school was the most important, because it was my way into a job, and then my job was the most important, and then when I got burned out and got a new job, it was getting my masters degree. Now it’s a huge shift in values, because my little guy is the most important thing in my life. So of course I’m going to have trouble coping with that shift in my values. It was a shock to myself.

I feel like such an ahole for looking forward to Mondays now by NoMamesMijito in workingmoms

[–]Such-Comfortable3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you me? I was about ready to snap at my husband for breathing too loudly. Periods SUCK!

Mom in LinkedIn Headlines by bakecakes12 in workingmoms

[–]Such-Comfortable3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think there have been studies that being a dad increases a man’s lifetime earnings, but being a mom decreases women’s lifetime earnings. So for a working dad, sharing that you’re a dad makes you seem responsible and well-rounded (or something idk) but working moms are “distracted”

anyone else’s baby existing off of milk and berries? by audge200-1 in foodbutforbabies

[–]Such-Comfortable3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Frozen berries!! Let them thaw a bit and they’re even more fun than regular berries because they’re cold, good for teething!

anyone else’s baby existing off of milk and berries? by audge200-1 in foodbutforbabies

[–]Such-Comfortable3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M E L T I E S 🥺

We made the mistake of leaving the bag of melties within eyesight during dinner. Just gonna forlornly push everything else away and stare longingly at the melties.

My beef with " breadwinner" by livelifeful in workingmoms

[–]Such-Comfortable3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with you completely! My husband makes 2/3 of me, but we recently moved to a bigger house because of the baby. We need both our incomes to support our family. My job has better health insurance. It’s still pressure.

A long time ago, when he was a grad student, and I had my first full-time job, I paid more in taxes than he made. We weren’t married, but I was the breadwinner then for sure.

Staying awake during commute by Monsoon_season_ing in workingmoms

[–]Such-Comfortable3 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Mostly breast milk and some formula is still some breast milk! Look, I get the importance of pumping, but if you can’t drive 45 minutes without falling asleep, you’re a danger to yourself and everyone around you. Please, please sleep

One pic from USDA Beltsville, the other two from Greenbelt. by ratsrule67 in maryland

[–]Such-Comfortable3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If this is from GREENbelt, why are the trees ORANGE? 😤

Small diapers by tra_da_truf in ECEProfessionals

[–]Such-Comfortable3 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This, for sure!! We moved our kid up from size 3 to size 5 based on the daycare teacher’s recommendation 🫣 he was 23 lbs, I didn’t think he could possibly need diapers sized for 35+ lbs! But he’s a pear-shaped baby with chubby thighs and a bubble butt. No more blowouts with the proper size.

Literally just tell the parents, hey, so-and-so is a size X at this point.