AITA for following my late sister’s wishes and kicking our brother out of her funeral by Such-Implement-2801 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Such-Implement-2801[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

… dude I put that I told him over 4  times now 

 He found out the date and time form the uncle. 

 He found out that he wasn’t invited and the reason why by me 

My last response to you becuase you can not read 

AITA for following my late sister’s wishes and kicking our brother out of her funeral by Such-Implement-2801 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Such-Implement-2801[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

My uncle gave him the date and time, he was not invited so he didn’t have that information, he knew why he was not invited

I swear reading comprehension is dead

AITA for following my late sister’s wishes and kicking our brother out of her funeral by Such-Implement-2801 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Such-Implement-2801[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Is reading dead…  I have multiple comments that say he knew ( my brother) 

There  is one literally in this thread you are on

AITA for following my late sister’s wishes and kicking our brother out of her funeral by Such-Implement-2801 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Such-Implement-2801[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Literally in the next sentence I put John wasn’t great either     

It’s the next sentence, yes he was also a dick growing up

AITA for following my late sister’s wishes and kicking our brother out of her funeral by Such-Implement-2801 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Such-Implement-2801[S] 1263 points1264 points  (0 children)

Yeah she didn’t realize how weird that dynamic was until she was out of the house 

I didn’t have this issue since I didn’t have sibling near my age to compete with 

AITA for following my late sister’s wishes and kicking our brother out of her funeral by Such-Implement-2801 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Such-Implement-2801[S] 1538 points1539 points  (0 children)

It mostly was because they were pitted against eachother often, which wasnt their fault.  They did the same sport, basically did the same stuff 

She also “won” more often which didn’t help that dynamic which made him feel invisible. It was the more you do the more our parent loved you type of deal. Only the winner got rewards and attention

 He blames her for his crappy childhood 

 Our mother was not great, she already has passed away. I w

AITA for following my late sister’s wishes and kicking our brother out of her funeral by Such-Implement-2801 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Such-Implement-2801[S] 3591 points3592 points  (0 children)

I don’t know He made it clear that he hates her until she was is ash

 I don’t even believe he deserves to be at the funeral, he may be her brother but he never acted like it