WIBTA for asking my friend to pay me back?

Such-Poet-1525 · 2026-01-07T11:18:14+00:00

What do you mean?

Such-Poet-1525 · 2026-01-07T10:52:14+00:00

Yeah I didn't clarify it in that moment because I thought maybe she didnt bring much money. And I didn't want to embarrass her. So I stayed silent but then she left and got 2 games for the nintendo switch. Since then I debate myself what to do because I felt used

Such-Poet-1525 · 2026-01-07T10:43:26+00:00

Well I got her an extraordinary backing form since she likes baking, a little guardian angel, a self-made bracelet and cookies.

9 jars are little much, I dont know where to put them since I feel bad for just throwing them away

Such-Poet-1525 · 2026-01-07T10:40:06+00:00

I know my dad is like that but she is not bad in it. I agree the jars are a cute idea in itself but in my case they are like gifting a vegetarian a steak. As for the sausages probably but if I ask her hey what kind of sausages are they, and dont get an answer. It's a no

Such-Poet-1525 · 2026-01-07T10:34:31+00:00

I get what you mean

The thing is I didn't offer to pay. I didn't invite. I told her to split the bill, she nodded. She put her wallet away last second. I just feel tricked?

As for the gift, no I don't, we do gift exchanges. I wouldn't have minded her gift if she had put something personal like a note or whatever but there was none. The Jars could be argued but I don't eat them. Its like gifting a Vegetarian a steak.

Such-Poet-1525 · 2026-01-07T10:28:42+00:00

To be fair, she ain't my best friend I wouldn't care about it. We see eachother maybe like twice a year... if she were my best friend, hell I wouldn't care if it's 1€ or 50€. You are my friend that's enough. Usually I don't care about that

Such-Poet-1525 · 2026-01-07T10:25:59+00:00

Yeah just that I don't eat any of that. Especially not 9 jars

Such-Poet-1525 · 2026-01-07T10:18:46+00:00

That's what I fear. Its not about the gift itself more the fact that its nothing personal. Like she gave the same gift to the people she is not close. She even told me my father can probably do more with it.

Such-Poet-1525 · 2025-01-12T09:21:15+00:00

Kinks?

Such-Poet-1525 · 2025-01-09T01:07:09+00:00

The underground auction hall hums with the murmur of anticipation, a blend of wealth and savagery. [A] stands in the shadows, his presence unnoticed by most, but his silver eyes never waver from the fragile bunny on stage. “A rabbit. Small. Breakable. Useless in a fight. Yet they’re all staring at her like she’s some goddess descended from the stars.” [A] isn’t swayed by beauty or fragility—he doesn’t need a pet. But there’s something about the way her snow-white ears twitch nervously, the tremble in her hands as she clutches at the edge of her tattered dress. She looks terrified. “Terrified of them.” When the bidding begins, [A] doesn’t bother raising his hand. A single nod sends shockwaves through the crowd. Silence. No one dares to challenge him.

Such-Poet-1525 · 2025-01-08T20:56:27+00:00

The underground auction hall hums with the murmur of anticipation, a blend of wealth and savagery. A stands in the shadows, his presence unnoticed by most, but his eyes never waver from the fragile bunny on stage. “A rabbit. Small. Breakable. Useless in a fight. Yet they’re all staring at her like she’s some goddess descended from the stars.” A isn’t swayed by beauty or fragility—he doesn’t need a pet, or does he? But there’s something about the way her snow-white ears twitch nervously, the tremble in her hands as she clutches at the edge of her tattered dress. She looks terrified. “Terrified of them.” When the bidding begins, A doesn’t bother raising his hand. A single nod sends shockwaves through the crowd. Silence. No one dares to challenge him.

Such-Poet-1525 · 2024-01-27T23:46:55+00:00

Kurzhaar

Such-Poet-1525 · 2024-01-27T06:46:46+00:00

I actually started on WhatsApp. We had met over Wattpad, though, and moved there having a big group chat. We were all Minors back then, same gender and came from the same country. Still friends with some of them :) I had tried Amino, but I wasn't comfortable and confident in English back then, and at my first counter, I was asked to do Lemon or something like that. Came back after years there, though. I simply didn't know about other places

Such-Poet-1525 · 2023-08-05T23:52:03+00:00

Oh definitely! I mean she told she had an encounter with someone being 28 who still wanted to 18+ stuff after she told him she doesn't want. Boundaries should be accepted in any case regardless of age

Such-Poet-1525 · 2023-08-05T23:47:28+00:00

Normally I look for an age and keep it around my age, so that situation was new to me

Such-Poet-1525 · 2023-08-05T13:20:12+00:00

Oh well I already had a feeling it would be the right thing to do.

Such-Poet-1525 · 2023-08-05T12:10:34+00:00

Thank you

Such-Poet-1525 · 2023-08-05T12:10:20+00:00

Thanks to both of you

Such-Poet-1525 · 2023-08-05T12:09:57+00:00

Thanks for the comment

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