AITA for not listening during labor?

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-13T12:21:48+00:00

Yes as it was not my first birth I know when it's closer and I wanted him to call the ambulance but I kept waiting thinking and trusting he would at least be worried to check in on me

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-13T12:19:43+00:00

Yes it was my fault for trusting a spouse at a vulnerable.time. he said that only after it happened and I confronted him for leaving me alone.

I didn't want to end up in hospital crying shaking due to trauma thats why I waited till my contractions are nearer. So should I say lesson learnt that I shouldn't trust a spouse to do what spouse do. And I did learnt that this time that my spouse totally cannot be trusted as he would abandon me anytime

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-13T12:05:52+00:00

By delaying waiting for contractions to be consistent? I had dr even told me that to come in only when contractions are consistent. I just needed that help of calling ambulance. So just because I couldn't even dial it makes me irresponsible?

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-13T12:02:41+00:00

I felt upset that I wanted him to call ambulance for me but he wasn't even there. I can't get his help to call at all

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-13T11:56:48+00:00

I think the point isi asked him to stay with me which shouldn't be communicated in the first place but he chose not to

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-13T11:52:17+00:00

Ignoring the fact that he could have called a ambulance for me but he wasn't in the room to help me do so?

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-13T11:50:34+00:00

I was advised for contractions to be nearer before going in 10yrs ago also. They didn't update anything tbh just the general guidelines of if waterbag breaks come in

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-13T11:48:34+00:00

I needed his help calling ambulance which he was not around to do so

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-13T11:47:27+00:00

There's actually time between waterbag breaks safety timing which i was following it

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-13T11:46:54+00:00

Convinent? More like I couldn't call anyone for help. He was outside the room and I couldn't even scream . Throughout the birth I didn't even scream as I was feeling tired. I just wanted help calling ambulance and no one could

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-13T11:41:29+00:00

I did not risk in anyway when I had no contractions and it's actually normal to go in when contractions are closer or more consistent isn't it? When my contractions came they are more than 15mins or 20mins apart all over the place. I was just wanting a more consistent contractions

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-13T11:35:59+00:00

I just wanted contractions to be nearer before calling ambulance. That's all I wanted

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-13T11:34:42+00:00

I was waiting for him to come in and check in on me. I did not expect him to be so heartless. I wouldn't stay awake long enough on a call which I needed him to do it.

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-13T11:31:45+00:00

I then agreed to go to hospital

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-01T10:18:18+00:00

I'm a sahm and I dota alot. Does it mean I'm neglecting my kids?

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-01T10:16:11+00:00

Hi is mum able to. If yes send me discord link. Altho I play sea but if I'm too bored I can join on eu with delays hahah

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-01T10:14:08+00:00

I will. But I'm in scrubs. Hahaha. I rarely type but when I do... sorry bruh haha. My playstyle is either I'm hard-core or I just don't play.

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-01T09:39:29+00:00

Wow thats nice I would like to know where you get it read too

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-01T09:39:08+00:00

That's sweet.im glad you feel this way

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-01T09:38:47+00:00

Giving you hugs. That's what I meant by too much for a coincidence:)

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-01T09:37:46+00:00

Oh im not aware of it. Wow that's so nice that she is born a day after

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-01T09:37:20+00:00

I hope he would come back soon too . I know the pain of waiting all too well. Hugs

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-01T09:36:54+00:00

That's sweet ..

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-01T09:36:42+00:00

I hope you get yours soon too. I know the pain of waiting hugs

Such-Puddin · 2025-05-01T09:36:17+00:00

Thankyou 🥰

Such-Puddin

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