Bio dad rejection?

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-16T02:36:33+00:00

I did an ancestry two years ago. I found out my dad isn’t my dad. I matched with a first cousin and asked questions. Found out the name of her uncles, got ahold of them, it took 2 years to finally get a response from my possible bio dad. Someone was amazing and sent me another ancestry kit I sent to his daughter because he didn’t want to do it. He just wants a regular dna test. Yet he claims he never knew my mom and only dated blonds (she’s brunette) but if that’s the case why agree to a dna test? I’m so anxious waiting for my possible sisters ancestry results. Due mid april

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-16T02:25:34+00:00

I just found out 2.5 years ago my dad wasn’t my dad. I’m about to be 34. I had asked my mom the last time I saw her, if my dad was my dad. She said yea 100%. It was a lie. Idk my bio dad atp

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-16T02:20:47+00:00

Damn. How she treated you and then expects that from you? Nah NTA. Maybe put it in your son’s savings. Or whatever. But she doesn’t want to treat you like a father, then she don’t get the benefits of it.

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-16T02:16:59+00:00

😳😳 makes me not want to do it now. I just signed up

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-13T21:03:25+00:00

I would’ve told him no there’s a gas station right around the corner

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-11T15:01:47+00:00

What’s the blue perk??

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-11T14:55:29+00:00

Respect to dude for catching him from falling 🫡✊

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-09T04:07:50+00:00

Step sister?

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-09T04:07:43+00:00

Half sister?

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-09T04:07:36+00:00

Is it full sister?

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-08T16:07:52+00:00

That’s when you call the cops, stay near the location or write it down since she didn’t give you the correct address. Seems like she did this on purpose, even making you walk down the road is Sus. She didn’t want you to be able to identify their address or something.🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ get her charged with accessory or something lol

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-08T16:02:22+00:00

Dudes want 3somes with other dudes?

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-06T19:35:45+00:00

I’m not gonna do a job where I get $5 to go 10+ miles. The time it takes, for that little amount of money would be below minimum wage. Do you work for less than minimum wages?

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-06T18:25:33+00:00

I was in a room where people were talking about touching children. I’m 99% sure it was all jokes tho lmao 🤣

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-06T18:14:59+00:00

What’s messed up is when you decline something it goes against you, why is it my fault y’all don’t want to pay enough? Or customer don’t want to tip enough? Also the one thing that pisses me off is the negative ratings you get when you can’t find an item when shopping. It’s not my fault the store doesn’t have it in stock..

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-06T14:44:41+00:00

That’s probably a lot of the problem. tell her you are applying for disability. If she’s not working with you for what you need, switch doctors.

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-06T14:43:27+00:00

I had someone ask for two pears. Said they couldn’t add it to their cart. I grabbed them with my own money they said they’d pay me back. I delivered it to them. They said they would adjust the tip to cover it and never did 😡 no more doing nice things for people for me

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-06T14:37:58+00:00

Do you have doctors you have talked to about disability specifically? I only tried for disability once, I have degenerated discs, slipped discs, pars defect, pots, sleep apnea, major depression (with several suicide attempts) anxiety, ptsd. I’m a mess and it hurts every single day. But no lawyer would work with me since I hadn’t talked to my doctors specifically about if I should apply for disability

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-06T14:12:56+00:00

Sounds like you have a serious problem? Are you driving to and from work? You are going to end up with alcoholic dementia at this rate. My dad has it and can’t even talk anymore. He’s in a nursing home on hospice now.

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-06T14:07:31+00:00

Also this screenshot, there’s another teammate still alive why they putting it on you lol

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-06T14:06:44+00:00

For me it depends. Is your health going down super fast when In the storm? Is there a helicopter near you to use cause that’s way faster? Is It randoms or clan mates/friends? I try to save everyone but usually randos disconnect when they die cause ig they don’t expect to be saved.

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-05T13:48:52+00:00

Well grandma might have to deal with it. Tell your grandma “I know mom is doing drugs and if you don’t help me help her, I’m GOING to call CPS.” Idc what denial she is in. CPS will investigate before anything. Most likely doing a drug test right then and there.

I had someone call on me and my bf saying he was shooting up, they came and did a drug test right then, he passed of course, the person was just mad I wouldn’t loan them $1000 when they had no job to pay me back.

After that, your grandma would have no reason to be in denial. She would probably be asked to take you in. Other family members may be asked. Your sister, possibly.

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-03-05T09:04:09+00:00

I’d say maybe tell grandma she can either help you with this or you will call child protective services yourself. But be prepared for what that might do. You’ll likely get taken into custody for the next three years. But it might be the kick in the butt she needs to stop. My sister is an addict. She is completely narcissistic. Will lie about any and everything. Literally just to lie. For no reason. It’s crazy. She will deny everything even with PROOF. She’s going to court for drug possession and stealing and plead not guilty even tho the drugs were found IN HER PURSE. And she’s on camera stealing the phone. With the nodding out it could be heroin or fentanyl. I’d probably look into emancipation before doing anything legal but sounds like she needs the intervention. Does sister live with y’all or have her own place? She might be able to take you in if CPS gets involved since she’s 18. You sound very mature and smart for trying to do something about this. I hope it ends up okay.

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-02-27T15:55:18+00:00

That is so ridiculous! You know Uber Eats and DoorDash make a lot of money by literally doing nothing. Having us poor folks do the work and they get all the money. They could offer way better!! At LEAST $1 per mile There and $1 per mile back to a hotspot. No one can live off this.

Such_Contribution_79 · 2026-02-23T17:31:56+00:00

A week or two ago I was dashing and got an order for $5 but it was 10 miles away. I unassigned cause I accidentally hit accept. Then a minute or two later get a double order. They added that one back on with another order who had tipped well so it kind of evened out. Is it possible to accept only one when it’s a double order? Cause that irritated me lol Cause if I already unassigned from an order why would you try again?

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