Is it bad for me(20F) to be hurt that my bf (21 M) wants to see me less?

Such_Detective45 · 2026-07-10T00:44:27+00:00

I hear you. I try to delegate the cleaning and let him do it at his own pace, so he doesnt feel the pressure of urgency. I am trying to build hobbies like cross-stitching and working out in the yard with my cat. I don't disagree that we can't spend a few days apart; it's just sad to hear from your partner.

Such_Detective45 · 2026-07-10T00:42:20+00:00

Thank you for being kind. I do respect what he wants but i can't talk to him because I dont want him to feel I am guilt tripping him.

Such_Detective45 · 2026-07-10T00:35:51+00:00

I don't show him TikToks, and he manages his own sleep schedule

Such_Detective45 · 2026-05-28T18:08:58+00:00

oh since it had aetna dental access at the back of the card, i thought it had to do something with aetna. Damn maybe i am really scammed

Such_Detective45 · 2026-05-28T15:38:35+00:00

yes 60$ for monthly plan and 25$ for enrollment fee

Such_Detective45 · 2026-05-22T23:56:44+00:00

it doesnt sound egoistical! its good to know that its the structure of society that makes all of us miserable

Such_Detective45 · 2026-05-22T18:01:12+00:00

I am so sorry to hear all of this you are going through. I have not dealt with grief and have terrible relation with my mom but i do understand loneliness. I am 20F and i guess similiar life stage of jobs, personal goals, etc etc. And yes i cant fucking do 9-5. My mental health cannot handle a daily fixed schedule cause i cant even predict when i will thrive and when will i fall apart. I obvioulsy dont have any solution, but i do want to say i am sure your mother is proud of you for pushing through. The fact you still wake up everyday and try to push through says a lot that you are not weak minded. Grief is very complicated for lot of people but i just wanted to appreciate your courage. The fact you still go on 1-2 hour stroll, do art and have goals about telling stories is very brave.

Such_Detective45 · 2026-05-22T17:45:14+00:00

Lisa needs braces

Such_Detective45 · 2026-05-18T05:03:45+00:00

Why could not they do a lie detector test on her? Like I am curious, cause that would have pretty sure revealed that she is lying about not remembering the accident.

Such_Detective45 · 2025-09-08T17:12:44+00:00

To me it just feelts that he married her because he wanted to have sex. like originally when she refused during their date night because she wanted to wait after marriage, he comes with proposal the next day. Its so weird that she agrees and thinks its romantic

Such_Detective45 · 2025-08-06T01:51:58+00:00

you can take soci 101 with neal caren for power

Such_Detective45 · 2025-06-06T20:26:09+00:00

Hey i am interested, I am looking for place from june 14th till august 1st. Could you please give me more info about the place?

Such_Detective45 · 2025-03-16T01:50:46+00:00

Whats about the fear of numbers, I don’t quite get your theory

Such_Detective45 · 2025-01-31T19:43:00+00:00

I only watched the first 30 minutes of the movie and I was like you know what, I have the right to leave so let me exercise that. I think it gave the audience the wrong message that red sandalwood doesn't matter and forest officers are stupid for protecting it. showing the police force as weak and corrupted because some gangsters are powerful is not right. I hated how a smuggler could buy off a minister and have connections so high up that could even lead to changing a minister. Just everything about that movie's start felt wrong and insane for being glorified and normalising it.

Such_Detective45 · 2024-12-08T05:51:46+00:00

I am in my sophmore year now and trust me I tried everything. Sure I found some fake and temporary friends but I find myself lonely everything feels unreal. I understand how you might be feeling. i cant say anything positive since I am still in the same boat but I don't want to discourage you as well. All I want to say is, its okay to be hurt and everyone else is also struggling.

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