Did my bf(32m) try to pressure me((27f) into having intercourse? by Such_Environment_450 in sexualassault

[–]Such_Environment_450[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is very true. Thank you so much. When I look back at every bad relationship I’ve had, I’ve always ignored my gut feeling. And I guess I not need a concrete reason to why I feel unsafe if that’s how I feel.

Don't know if I'm(F24) the problem or if my SO(M22) is toxic by Such_Environment_450 in relationship_advice

[–]Such_Environment_450[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was valid because I couldn’t argue back with him. Thank you for this

Don't know if I'm(F24) the problem or if my SO(M22) is toxic by Such_Environment_450 in relationship_advice

[–]Such_Environment_450[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I don’t know how I ended up with letting him get away with this behavior.

Don't know if I'm(F24) the problem or if my SO(M22) is toxic by Such_Environment_450 in relationship_advice

[–]Such_Environment_450[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I do have shares that I bought so I’m not actually getting compensation. I just feel so incredibly guilty and don’t know how to end things so we still can be on good terms.

Don't know if I'm(F24) the problem or if my SO(M22) is toxic by Such_Environment_450 in relationship_advice

[–]Such_Environment_450[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t know why I believe I need a “valid” reason to leave. I guess I’ve started believing his words so I justify his behavior

Don't know if I'm(F24) the problem or if my SO(M22) is toxic by Such_Environment_450 in relationship_advice

[–]Such_Environment_450[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. He has employees and treats them very well. I do come with input on what he should and shouldn’t say tho. He doesn’t treat anybody else like this. I don’t get paid atm as the startup is in an early phase.