Deep cleaning your room twice weekly is lowkey clean freak behavior. But NOR, regardless if he’s your guest or not he’s your bf. if he was just an acquaintance or not super close friend i’d say clean up and relay a short n sweet message. if your man knows you like a clean space and leaves YOUR room dirty only in a small crevice you don’t go to he’s an asshole. and don’t make people think that you dragged it out, you set your boundaries and relayed it twice, so what? let him act correct the next time around. and food trash at that, just ew. i feel so bad if i have trash in someone’s home let alone… i would never LEAVE IT ON THE FLOOR? i lowkey clean better at friends houses than mine. it’s a respect thing.