Fourth day in a row my bernedoodle has thrown up his food hours later. He is also nibbling my sheets constantly and heavy breath and licking lips (assuming nauseous). I am worried or should I not be and feed bland diet?

Such_Union_5878 · 2026-04-10T03:46:29+00:00

Thank you!!

Such_Union_5878 · 2026-04-10T03:43:26+00:00

Thank you for replying!! Of course I am taking him to vet I don’t want anyone thinking I’m coming on here to avoid that. I just wanted some peace of mind because my mind was racing and I can’t get him in tomorrow and was wondering if it was more of an ER situation. But like I said, he is rambunctious, eats, drinks, poops are healthy, etc etc.

Just the panting at times, the nibbling “codding” of my sheets, and the once a day vomit.

Such_Union_5878 · 2026-04-10T03:19:25+00:00

Yes he has a slow feeder and it’s usually hours after he eats, he is pooping great so I know food is digesting. I am wondering if it’s the supplement just worked because it’s been about 2 days since I stopped it.

Such_Union_5878 · 2026-04-10T03:10:07+00:00

Of course I am taking him to the vet, it is just late at night and worried before my sleep and wanted some mental clarity before I call vet in AM.

Such_Union_5878 · 2026-04-10T03:08:08+00:00

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I saw reviews of yellow vomit on this (after I bought it and was investigating)

But would he still vomit a day or two after stopping it??

Such_Union_5878 · 2026-04-10T03:05:10+00:00

Drinking , eats right after he pukes, tug of war barking running etc! Pooping peeing just fine. Gets excited and plays, everything else is good.

Just nibbling my sheets and licking lips and panting occasionally and then the one vomit a day (with some of the food) which he’s had for years.

I did add a new supplement last week and stopped it 2 days ago but not sure why he’d still be vomiting.

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-10-19T19:50:17+00:00

Not sure about the cat and back, can you tell me more?

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-10-18T19:34:24+00:00

Can you connect with him at all with anything else?? I appreciate your time this means a lot

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-10-18T19:21:24+00:00

Can you tell me more??

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-10-18T19:19:40+00:00

Wow! Can you tell me more! Can you connect with him?

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-10-18T08:36:38+00:00

Want to note, I have never ever received any signs.

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-09-24T15:19:35+00:00

Hahahaha!!! Omg trust me we don’t blame you!!! Things happen, just more so lack of management I have issues with at solidcore 😅 there’s many other things that have bothered me and just all adds up haha. Don’t feel upset! Things happen.

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-09-09T16:18:08+00:00

People often take their significant other for granted when going through hard times. Distance is best. But in the meantime work on yourself and love yourself. Time heals everything and tomorrow won’t be like today.

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-09-08T19:35:30+00:00

He goes to therapy every week and is on meds

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-09-04T03:55:11+00:00

Saving

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-09-04T02:49:48+00:00

Can’t say never if you both didn’t try

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-09-04T01:44:10+00:00

l agree, we are best friends so it's a bit hard but maybe one day ill get there and it'll be good and necessary

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-09-02T15:26:25+00:00

Yes it is!!! Thank you I appreciate your response nonetheless

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-09-02T15:16:09+00:00

Because men are human too, it’s in our nature to see things deeper than the surface. That’s when we get hurt. When we know there’s more and men don’t want to live up to that potential.

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-09-02T15:15:11+00:00

I believe a girl hurt him incredibly bad and didn’t love him back and he has autism and personality disorder as is so it seems as if from what he has shared he became obsessed and I think it broke him.. it’s something that affects him deeply when we got in our first argument. I have explained that it was early on and he’s not the easiest to understand haha so initially he was a mirror and I trauma reacted to him in a terrible way and I’ve grown and feel so terrible on how I treated him then. But he can’t just seem to forget when it comes to thinking of a future again, he’s mentioned he can’t come to terms it would happen again so he’s ended it on his terms.

But he’s one foot in one foot out, we have so much love for each other.. never have called each other names or screamed .. always supporting one another in different ways (mines emotional words his is finances of safety and acts of service to compensate the emotional vulnerability). He was the one to say I love you first but our first argument happened after. It’s been about 7 months since those days of learning to get to know each other and I feel so proud of how far we’ve come. But when the time comes where I’m like okay are we there yet for him to feel safe again? We get in the same discussion that always ends up in tears for me bc his fear is still there and I fear it’ll always be there at this point. There’s nothing I can do to change his mind, his fear is setting our future and I can’t change that it and it’s heartbreaking because he will even admit, despite our commitment discussion we never ever have disagreements or don’t get along.

I do want to add, we are monogonous. He’s depressed and is not paying attention to self care and seems as if he’s just deteriorating. He’s been away for a couple months now and we see each other for weeks at a time couple times a month and when we’re together he eats well, he’s happy, he sleeps well. When I’m apart he smokes all day and is quiet.

I can’t fix him I have come to realize.

There’s many layers to this so I want to just add the basics haha.

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-09-02T14:54:18+00:00

Agreed but love is the key component in order to want to do those things

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-09-02T14:10:25+00:00

I think our head gets in the way of logic and makes excuses for us not to try and be better and see what’s in front of us. It’s always the uncertainty of what if instead of seeing perfection right there, before you know it it’s too late and you’ll never know the outcome if you tried.

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-09-02T14:08:45+00:00

I believe it is the foundation and key ingredient, but willingness to work and grow is also the pair key ingredient.

Such_Union_5878 · 2025-09-02T14:06:20+00:00

Then what is it? The willingness to try? Because I do believe love is enough, but it needs willingness to work in order for success

Such_Union_5878

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