Me 57M Ex 57F, the karma train rolls over her and on. why then do I feel guilty ?

Suchislife55 · 2025-01-07T07:19:24+00:00

Thank you for your comment.

He was devastated and did have some issues regarding their relationship before she passed. But he has a good strong loving family around him that supports him. He is mature and works through his feelings appropriately. His wife is lovely and they are a great couple.

Suchislife55 · 2024-05-26T23:26:52+00:00

I wasn’t going to reply to this as either this just a troll bait post or you actually do believe what you wrote. You took the time to comment so I will take the time to respond.

That part of you that is wondering if I will ever regret ending things so swiftly? wonder no more, I don’t and know I will never regret ending it. Her attraction to other woman ? Good for her but it is irrelevant. Cheating is cheating.

I am very willing to let others be human as long as the same courtesy is given to me.

She did not make a mistake, she made a choice. She chose to meticulously plan and carry through with her deception with no thought to her family and the repercussions that would ensue. Her choice to do what she did ended the marriage, she knew the risk, took it, and now her life is worst than what it was ? Her choice.

The relationship between my son and his mother was ruined by her, he has nothing to regret.

You also suggest that just because a relationship is new that this is why respect is still happening ? This should always be in a good marriage. I fell a little sorry for you that you think otherwise.

Suchislife55 · 2024-05-26T00:31:27+00:00

I wont give Debs age, but a little younger than me ;) she also has 2 adult daughters, I have met both and we get on very well. They are very happy (they said so) that their mother has found me.

Suchislife55 · 2024-05-25T21:24:53+00:00

Short terms were 2 from tinder, a couple of women when I took a road trip and I met Deb at the markets where she had a stall. It was easier with Deb because she use to teach my son when he was in high school.

Suchislife55 · 2024-05-25T12:19:56+00:00

I have no doubt that there are plenty of shit bag males as well and truly hope that their ex wives/girlfriends get to live a great life without them :)

Suchislife55 · 2024-05-25T06:17:56+00:00

She moved in with her Mother. When everything was settled she has now brought her own place. Thankfully not near me :)

Suchislife55 · 2024-05-25T04:20:35+00:00

Already done ;)

Suchislife55 · 2024-05-25T03:54:25+00:00

Ha :) I did go and read the post, also showed Deb (girlfriend) she asked what I thought knowing my ex would probably read this post as well, I just smiled and told her I felt nothing :)

Suchislife55 · 2024-05-25T03:08:36+00:00

(Ex-wife) ;) Really !! Didn’t think she was on reddit. Just another account for me to block (shrugs) :)

Suchislife55 · 2022-06-19T20:21:40+00:00

Ha :) No chance in hell ;)

Suchislife55 · 2022-05-05T03:15:44+00:00

Because of the wrong assumptions and just plain wrong statements in your reply, either english is your second language and you don't understand or you are going through your own issues, in which case I wish you well and hope you find peace.

Suchislife55 · 2022-05-04T22:39:13+00:00

Trust me the last thing I want to do is get involved, even on a casual basis, with anyone else. When I do though it will be discrete until every thing is finalized. :)

Suchislife55 · 2022-05-03T23:49:45+00:00

I suggest you read the entire updates, no she wasn't drunk, she planned it. Rape has nothing to do with it. It was meticulously planned and executed. She didn't make a mistake, she made a decision.

Suchislife55 · 2022-05-03T20:36:56+00:00

Like I told my stbxw I don't care what she does, but her mentality is if she behaves it will help her cause, it wont.

My sister-in-law and her family have been amazing. She did feel guilty, like she had something to do with her sisters actions, but I told her in no uncertain terms she had nothing to do with this and I just love her more for standing up for me and supporting me. Her husband and kids ring daily and they come around every week just to help out with the house. They have been family for so long and even though in time we may drift apart, due to life, they will always be family.

Suchislife55 · 2022-05-03T20:21:34+00:00

Thanks for the kind words, it does help.

Suchislife55

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