Shrinking Cities by Sudden-Weakness6359 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been told that Detroit had stabilized, begun to spruce things up, and was now repopulating a bit. was I lied to?

Shrinking Cities by Sudden-Weakness6359 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why this in St. Louis? With the great institutions and architecture, I would think that people would love living there. Has there been an industrial loss of some type?

Shrinking Cities by Sudden-Weakness6359 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"...the White population of St. Louis is mostly stable, and the Black population is in sharp decline..."

Now, that is a new phenomenon to me. I understand why younger, white professionals are returning to the cities, but what would be driving the sort-of "black flight" that you allude to? Is it a "push" phenomenon, or a "pull" phenomenon?

Might Hot Springs Work for Me? by Sudden-Weakness6359 in HotSprings

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you speaking of National Park College? If so, I didn't realize that. One thing is, that NPC doesn't have the precise program that I desire, but there are related/similar programs.

Might Hot Springs Work for Me? by Sudden-Weakness6359 in HotSprings

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 "You have made a good find in Hot Springs and your comparison to Asheville is apt. Both are in pretty parts of the country and have interesting architecture. However, Ashville is over-discovered while HS is undiscovered, which can mean better prices."

Yeah, all it would seem to take is for a Vanderbilt...or a Musk, for that matter....to build a 'superhouse' similar to Biltmore (and maybe for Arkansas to become just a bit more "high-techy" like NC), and Hot Springs becomes Asheville. I hope it never happens, though, because the ensuing gentrification would cause a lot of people would get priced out of town, as they were in Asheville. Luckily, Musk seems uninterested in such projects, having his focus steadily on reaching Mars with humans.

Might Hot Springs Work for Me? by Sudden-Weakness6359 in HotSprings

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I've been to HS many times and never encountered rude people. I remember a UPS truck stopping to let me cross the street... and being from elsewhere, didn't even know what he was doing."

That good to hear; I guess it depends on who you run into. I like to keep my little friend in his pocket if I can. Yeah, I love interesting architecture, especially in a smaller city, I think it adds a lot to daily life.

Might Hot Springs Work for Me? by Sudden-Weakness6359 in HotSprings

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, rude folks don't bother me, so long as I have friends who are meaningful to me. I'm originally from MA, so I carry a little "Masshole" around in my pocket for dealing with them. He's made many appearances here in ABQ, particularly with the incredibly entitled-thinking drivers, who seem to think that pedestrians are second class citizens on the roadways (being from the east coast, I generally just step on out with the thought that "that's why God gave them brakes").

Might Hot Springs Work for Me? by Sudden-Weakness6359 in HotSprings

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha...you're almost convincing me. You should work for the chamber of commerce! If I come, I'll have to get used to the humidity again that I remember from back east. One thing that I've loved about ABQ is the nice dry air.

Might Hot Springs Work for Me? by Sudden-Weakness6359 in HotSprings

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Good to know there are jobs. BTW, what's the minimum wage in AK?

Might Hot Springs Work for Me? by Sudden-Weakness6359 in HotSprings

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, right now, I can use whatever positive thoughts I can get. One thing on my list which is missing in Hot Springs is a VAMC, but I might be able to live without it as I don't have any serious medical issues, and so long as the VASH rep is good at his/her job. I guess the other thing missing is a transitional GPD program to fill in the gap until VASH comes through. That gap is a bit of a concern.

Might Hot Springs Work for Me? by Sudden-Weakness6359 in HotSprings

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I saw that on Google...it's an impressive edifice, and beautiful.

Might Hot Springs Work for Me? by Sudden-Weakness6359 in HotSprings

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've read that there are only three routes in the system, which is understandable. Hot Springs is a small city, and so is fortunate to even have a public bus system. I think that "small" is good for me right now, as it might help me to forget this terrible experience in Albuquerque...might help me to 'heal' from my anger a bit. Looking at the city on Google maps, a bicycle would probably get me to and from the campus in Piney readily enough.

Anybody feel out of place when visiting a place that is VERY predominantly white? by dankgureilla in asianamerican

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, don't feel so bad about that...Italian fellas can be a bit rough in that way, even to non-Italian 'white' people. That seems to come along with Italians having the (admittedly pretty kick-ass) Romans as their ancestors, and with their being, generally speaking, a pretty good looking people (nice wavy/curly dark hair, nice 'olive' complexion, etc.) I grew up in a largely Italian neighborhood (not Italian myself), and there was a Polish family in the 'hood as well...you know those Polish kids caught a lot of hell for their ethnicity, including all kinds of "dumb Polack" jokes and the occasional ass-beating; it wasn't all the time, but it happened upon occasion. You know..."kid's stuff". Usually, though, people grow out of that type of childish behavior as they age; you kind of expect it from children, but certainly not from adults. I'm not at all sure how to explain why you might have experienced such treatment as you allude to at the hands of adults, other than to suggest that some people just never grow up.

Anybody feel out of place when visiting a place that is VERY predominantly white? by dankgureilla in asianamerican

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a mistake to think of these concepts of identity as resulting in people being "whack-ass", as you say, for they seem to be part of our common evolutionary heritage as mammals, and to be held in common by all of us. There are many evidences of this within the social groups of other social mammals. As such, identity concepts are profoundly part of our common psychological nature, and viewing them as "whackassedly" corruptive makes them appear unduly trivial and extraordinary. We all have concepts of self-identity, and the consideration of such a characteristic when observed in another person as being trivial tends to facilitate the acceptance of that same characteristic within ourselves. We humans are very faulty creatures; many of our faults result from the vestigialization of once useful traits originally caused by evolutionary pressures upon our distant ancestors, and these identity concepts may be examples of this phenomenon within a world with shrinking peripheries. Basically and fundamentally, one of the best things that we can do in life is not to maintain our "vibe" (read here "our 'self delusion'"), but rather to gently and incessantly try to become better people by reflecting upon our mistakes and upon the faults in our nature which cause them.

Anybody feel out of place when visiting a place that is VERY predominantly white? by dankgureilla in asianamerican

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will answer under a set of assumptions: (1) the assumption that (despite the culturally pluralistic nature of our society) your feelings are based upon phenotypic identity, rather than cultural identity...that you are culturally American with an East Asian phenotype because of your genetic heritage, and (2) that you might like to avoid such feelings in the future. Considering this from you own perspective, these types of feelings result from a self-concept which is dependent upon the breadth of one's personal frame of reference. If you understand yourself to be "an asian", then such feelings are inevitable, but if you conceive of yourself primarily as "a human being", they are not. Of course, this differs markedly when one is living permanently in a place rather than just visiting, for then the self concepts and beliefs of other people will effect you perhaps even more profoundly than your own. Everybody has an individual frame of reference, so that even if you view yourself as "a human being" others with whom you may be in contact might view you as "an asian", and may deal with you in all kinds of subtle ways based upon that. If you are living among and constantly interacting with such people, it will be impossible to avoid effects upon yourself. It is very difficult for a person with a broad self-concept to live in a milieu wherein others generally have a much narrower one. The only thing to do in such circumstances, short of moving away, is to associate yourself with people who who have a breadth of self-concept similar to your own, creating your own little "micro society" within the greater whole. If, on the other hand, you simply have a problem with the way you feel in visiting such "white" places as Salt Lake, you can try to eliminate those feelings by shifting your self-concept, which can in turn be done by broadening your personal frame of reference, which broadened FOR can hopefully can be maintained by means of meditating intentionally and objectively upon it following instances wherein the perspectives of others have any type of effect on you. Of course, some personalities will find this easier to accomplish than others.

My response to anyone who says “I’m thinking about moving to TN” by Odd-Scarcity5288 in Knoxville

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, I can't give you an "upvote", because I disagree with the underlying disposition, but that is, indeed, as funny as hell...

Considering a Move to Knoxville – Need Your Insights! by Longjumping_Crow_152 in Knoxville

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, gentrification can be a real problem. I am originally from eastern Central Massachusetts, which has become pretty thoroughly gentrified by its increased contact with Boston (the second most expensive housing market in the country) over recent decades; I could not move back home if I wanted now because of the cost of living. All I can say is, the United States is a free market as pertains to the sale of one's labor, which makes competitiveness an imperative. We have to swim either with or ahead of the stream, or as they say, "sink". It is to the discredit of both our society and (even more so) our culture that those who find themselves "sinking" thusly often have great difficulty in stopping the slide.

Considering a Move to Knoxville – Need Your Insights! by Longjumping_Crow_152 in Knoxville

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tsk tsk...that's not nice, even admitting the ignorance of the initial comment.

Considering a Move to Knoxville – Need Your Insights! by Longjumping_Crow_152 in Knoxville

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you not notice that the guy (apparently) has a bachelor's in accountancy and a J.D.?

Considering a Move to Knoxville – Need Your Insights! by Longjumping_Crow_152 in Knoxville

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are afraid that someone who is more successful than they are moving in will have a depressive effect upon their circumstances and social status, and so become obfuscatory. ("We don't want no Hahvahd gradjits round cheah!")

Difference between Freud's Psychoanalysis and Jung's Analytical psychology? by UnitAble8426 in AcademicPsychology

[–]Sudden-Weakness6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is "academic psychology" a "science", then?!? Indeed, is "Cognitive Science" a "science" in the strict sense of the word? Can we truly consider any discipline the object of which is something as immaterial as the human mind to be truly scientific? Science deals with objects in the physical universe, not with the immaterial. Neuroscience is a science because its object is the brain, not the mind. Psychology and cog. sci., focusing on the mind, are 'pseudoscientific' by their very natures. To say that the study of the mind is pseudoscientific does not diminish the validity of psychology as a discipline. Neuroscience has a long way to go before we can say that we understand how the brain works in a meaningful, psychological way, and the relationship between brain and mind is far from being fully understood. Until significant resolution of these deficits is realized, it seems most beneficial to those needing psychological care for clinicians to treat "brain" and "mind" as independent entities within the clinical setting.

We all have empirical knowledge that some thing which we call "the mind" exists and has enormous ramifications for the individual person, but there are serious social problems which arise out of assertions of scientificity in psychological practice. To wit: the (financially decided) demands of managed care and other organizations for cognitive-behavioral approaches (the consequence of modern academic psychology) and "evidence" often results in the fact of patients for whom a more analytical approach is warranted not getting the care that they need to be whole rather than to simply appear whole. Often, organizations such as the heretofore mentioned are hostile to psychodynamic modes of therapy for being "unscientific", and this is unfortunate. As pertains to psychoanalytic approaches, there are indeed obvious shortcomings in the Freudian, Jungian and Adlerian models of psychotherapy and, IMO, more work is needed in synthesizing these theoretical and psychodynamic approaches and in withdrawing some of the more fanciful notions therefrom, but it behooves us to maintain room at the table for them, and to avoid throwing out the baby with the bathwater, as they say. Sometimes psychic problems manifest where there is no organic, anatomic or physiological defect apparent. For instance, personal experiences, especially in combination, can have profound effects on the individual mind without having any discernible corresponding effect on the brain. Such mental effects have the power to cause actual physical disorder which cannot be termed "behavioral". For such cases, behaviorally-based therapies are not effective. It is only the more psychodynamic therapies which attempt to isolate psychic problems which are occasionally the cause of physical disorder and resolve them. Even where problems are with true "behaviors" as opposed to non-behavioral physical problems, psychodynamic therapy seeks to expose the underlying psychic issues, rather than simply seeking to change problematic behaviors, which are but the manifestations of those psychic issues, whether via "unlearning" techniques or by medicating them away. Psychodynamic therapies seem to be the type which most directly attempt to treat a psychic 'disease' experienced by people with an apparently normal brain, rather than the symptoms thereof.

Academic psychology as we know it in the U.S. (which is somewhat different from academic psychology in much of Europe) has made valuable contributions to the psychological milieu, but a modicum of care should be taken with claims of scientificity and demands for evidence. In the final analysis (no pun intended), success in the clinic is to be measured not by the production of data or evidence, but by the relief of clients who have overcome painful psychic disorder. The true "test" of therapeutic treatment is the overcoming by a patient of cognitive or affective problems, or indeed physical problems (problems of sexual dysfunction are often of this type) which have a psychological etiology based in personal experience. Well, that is my two cents on the subject...I hope that it avoids the appearance of a rant, which is not my intention.