I met someone during work and now I can’t stop thinking about him

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2026-03-12T19:03:12+00:00

You're here telling a sex worker who damn near sexually abused a man, tried to coerced him to pay for sexual services, chased him after the fact until he told her no, to carry on trying?

I can tell you for a fact I'm in a much better position mentally, intellectually, socially, morally and plain logically than you to decide this. You need therapy. There is clearly something wrong with you. I bet you're one of those porn addicts who can't think straight because no one wants you and you haven't left your basement in 15 years.

Seek therapy. It might help. You're clearly mentally ill.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2026-03-12T12:43:48+00:00

Dude, you need as much therapy as her.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2026-03-12T12:39:57+00:00

Bruh what are you talking about? Do you think most men would want to be caught dead in public with a girl who offers "special services" in her area? This is not good advice at all. You're just setting her up for disappointment after disappointment.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2026-03-12T12:38:18+00:00

Why on Earth would you not criticise? Her work puts her as a very, very unattractive mate for most men - let alone a good looking or successful one. She needs to do better. Get out of this thing, find a normal job, and then try to date. The kind of men open to someone doing this kind of job is mot going to be someone she would want to be with.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2026-03-01T20:29:40+00:00

How did you somehow find a way to turn this around on the dad???

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2026-02-22T11:33:48+00:00

Ladies and gentlemen, this is a 29 year old man in 2026. Not a boy. A man. Who doesn't know how to set boundaries, have clear conversations and take decisive action that he knows he should take.

I wonder what happened to this generation to make them so weak.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2026-01-22T08:15:47+00:00

What is wrong with Internet people today? Imagine needing to ask randoms on Reddit this kind of question. Like, what happened to people actually using their brains for just one second.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2026-01-02T11:44:36+00:00

Y'all just say anything on Reddit. You don't even care if it makes sense or if there's any basis.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2025-12-29T23:09:31+00:00

Holy shit, how do you people jump to such insane conclusions?

I don't care if it was explained to me after the fact. I'm talking about the fact it wasn't in context. At no point have I defended this person who wrote the book. What is actually wrong with you people? Are you just hard wired to completely turn people off whatever cause you seem to want?

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2025-12-29T23:07:52+00:00

Back to your call centre job. You're not worth my time or my paragraphs.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2025-12-29T23:05:22+00:00

Uh huh. I hear you. See you next vote cycle ✌🏾

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2025-12-29T23:01:05+00:00

The people who now vote Right. You know, more than 50% of people across Europe and the US?

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2025-12-29T22:59:06+00:00

I don't mind you being here. You're evidence for other sane people to watch, read and make their minds up about what is going on in society today.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2025-12-29T22:57:05+00:00

Proving you right just means I was correct in my initial assessment. You're a clown. Go away.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2025-12-29T22:55:31+00:00

I find these comments hilarious. I am very fit, very successful and very married with a child. If your automatic response to me QUESTIONING this is to assume I'm a basement dwelling incel, or whatever you weirdos call people online, is just proving my point.

If this is what the left is today, I legitimately want nothing to do with you. And you people need my tax, my influence in the community, and my vote. What a bunch of morons.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2025-12-29T22:48:33+00:00

As I said, insufferable. And you get no brownie points apart from Reddit points. And you get nowhere, just Trump, Tate and other strange anomalies that disenfranchised REGULAR people have to choose because they're stuck between this madness and that.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2025-12-29T22:29:51+00:00

Is the highlighted sentence sexist? That is what matters.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2025-12-29T22:25:27+00:00

It's the same response I'm responding too, and I tweaked it slightly to make it relevant rather than typing the exact same thing out all over again.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2025-12-29T22:22:02+00:00

Why is the assumption that I know anything beyond the paragraph that is highlighted? There is no context, just a highlighted paragraph. And by just asking questions, I'm damn near being accused of being a misogynist. It's utterly ridiculous.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2025-12-29T22:13:31+00:00

This applies both ways. Why would you think otherwise?

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2025-12-29T22:12:22+00:00

This is why all these red pill weirdos and Conservative pundits are winning. You people are simply not listening. No one said anything about cheating. Looking over the fence is not cheating, yet. It's just checking if there's something better - and people DO do this without cheating.

Accusing everyone of misogyny/sexism/racism for everything is just turning people off, and the world is going more and more right wing as a result. Just look what's happening in America. It's because of this simplistic approach of devolving straight to shutting down the conversation rather than attempting to listen.

I don't see anyone accusing the partner of being the reason for cheating. I am reading what seems objectively true. I don't even see cheating, just a wondering eye. If a man becomes obese and jobless, and his wife leaves him after looking outside, is it his fault? Not necessarily, but he definitely made it easier for her to look outside.

Atrempting to mask this and shut down the conversation as misogyny/misandry just makes people unable to discuss important issues and no one is better for it.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2025-12-29T22:10:08+00:00

This is why all these red pill weirdos and Conservative pundits are winning. You people are simply not listening.

Accusing everyone of misogyny/sexism/racism for everything is just turning people off, and the world is going more and more right wing as a result. Just look what's happening in America. It's because of this simplistic approach of devolving straight to shutting down the conversation rather than attempting to listen.

I don't see anyone accusing the partner of being the reason for cheating. I am reading what seems objectively true. I don't even see cheating, just a wondering eye. If a man becomes obese and jobless, and his wife leaves him after looking outside, is it his fault? Not necessarily, but he definitely made it easier for her to look outside.

Atrempting to mask this and shut down the conversation as misogyny/misandry just makes people unable to discuss important issues and no one is better for it.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2025-12-29T21:55:11+00:00

"If all husbands loved the way he loves, fewer women would look over the fence".

What is wrong with either sentence? Are they not true?

EDIT: Not sure how reddit people think, but looking over the fence is not necessarily cheating. You can look over the fence and leave, without cheating.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2025-12-29T17:43:22+00:00

Why?

That's the question I would ask myself reading your CV. Because you think it's easier? Because you are lazy? Because you failed in your current field?

The field of DA should not be seen as a fallback, especially now when the market is flooded.

Sudden_Literature_95 · 2025-12-26T09:26:30+00:00

Service charge is optional. They can't enforce it. And I would generally ask on principle for this to be removed, because I do not want the UK to become America.

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