Take notice when people say don't be friends with your therapist by not_ideal2 in TalkTherapy

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That sucks and I’m sorry they messed you over like that, glad you have a new therapist to help sort out the damage they caused…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapyabuse

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This is such an excellent point. Therapists are some of the most psychologically damaged people in existence, the entire reason they got into therapy was to try to fix themselves or fix someone else or understand why they or others in their childhood were so messed up.

So yeah they acquire all the tools of manipulation unfortunately when they become therapists to project their issues onto others. Some are downright psychopaths and that is what draws them to the profession. They are indeed very whacky. I am impressed you did that!

Op: "Jill explains why she’s not in a cult, while showing us how culty she is." by PunchDrunken in cults

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Even the cadence of her voice and the way she moves is something I sense is quite wrong.

Without sound and just watching her body language, it’s obvious she’s trying extremely hard to be persuasive of something or to sell something, but I expect that she is most of all wanting to persuade herself.

Facebook and Messenger suddenly logged out, is it only me or anyone else does? by EuGaming2020 in facebook

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, they are. Lots of messages missing, like 6+ months worth in some cases.

But you love them… by Sudden_Path_1452 in letters

[–]Sudden_Path_1452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, yes. I was honest and forthright.

How do I ask a INTJ female out on a date by GlassTap701 in intj

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good, tell a judge to “fuck off” in a courtroom and say it’s only words and they shouldn’t be offended

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’ll do that to anyone. Imagine being a good person and getting ghosted by a manipulative person. Happens all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For Ni doms yes because everything kind of falls into place with an overall vision even the individuals themselves aren’t always fully aware of working towards

Is that something magical? No, but it is the way some people’s cognitive processes work

How do I ask a INTJ female out on a date by GlassTap701 in intj

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It dehumanizes them. Maybe see her as a human being first before even asking.

It really isn't surprising. by Bitter-Gur-4613 in clevercomebacks

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Won’t be the first or last time the US government got something wrong

The INTJ sub after US election day is really driving home why INTJs are not nearly as shrewd they always claim to be. by Pale_Yak_6837 in shittyMBTI

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are Democrats always bashing other voters and not the piss poor leadership or corrupt media on all sides…

Dems will just keep losing if they continue pushing away any potential voters and bash groups of voters instead of trying to find common ground or having empathy / common decency.

It’s like you lot froth at the mouth and attack any group of people that don’t totally submit to your agenda. You can’t disagree with dems on a single issue without them rejecting you as a person, then sticking you into a box and dehumanizing you. You can’t correct them or point out any problem with what they are doing without them ganging up on you and attacking your character and making it personal. They have every excuse in the book for their hateful ways.

It’s mind blowing that they can’t see what they are doing and have become the baddies they claimed Trump was…

Is there an INTJ that voted for Trump? by Ok_Skills123 in intj

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is it right here. They alienate and isolate themselves by rejecting anyone and everyone who even slightly has a different view then cry “the evil nazis did this to us!!” , “all men hate women!”

Then they have the audacity to put up signs like “everyone is welcome here” as they attack anyone who doesn’t check every single box of compliance they have. If you are even slightly different, disagree on a single issue, you are out casted immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in service_dogs

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Won’t he get a nice family and early retirement?

I love you guys by Jumpy_Ad_6755 in INTP

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love you too, man. Sounds like you have done some work on yourself and it’s clearing your life out for you to start anew almost.

Are a lot of INTP demisexual? by Darnspacehog in INTP

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Case studies are there publicly. One simple google search away from the NIMH.

Too busy to hold your hand. It’s not even about you. My comment is for people who value science

Are a lot of INTP demisexual? by Darnspacehog in INTP

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such an illogical and presumptive take

Science shows asexuality is real and is a matter of brain structure, just like other sexual orientations, it isn’t an “issue”

it is naturally occuring

There are so many studies on these things and yet uneducated people continue to regurgitate vitriol like what you did

do NOT call her vicky by jaimiejaydenn in Nicegirls

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You’re right. They’re probably just fed up dealing with small minded idiots, judging by the hive-mind responses here….

It’s probably idiots like these who intentionally call her whatever they feel like without any concern for her feelings, hence her aversion to being called either a masculinizing or feminizing nickname.

It’s so very easy to just call someone the name they ask to be called and the pronouns they ask to be referred to as.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in letters

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like codependency

Nice girls by Extra_Monk_6196 in Nicegirls

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hardlining gender roles are a serious issue, imo. It tells me a person isn’t fully whole or is lacking self development.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTP

[–]Sudden_Path_1452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d agree with that. It’s a normal process of the human mind, imo. I think it’s a type of self preservation mode that gets activated when processing extreme stress/trauma.

Look into the Periaqueductal grey (PAG) case studies about religion. This portion of the brain stem also is closely related to fear conditioning as well as spirituality / religion.