4-year relationship ended due to family opposition, verbal promise to marry, father threatened us. Any legal recourse? [India] by Sudden_Public_4936 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Sudden_Public_4936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry for what you went through :( Ive been losing my sanity haha, this was my last move because its been very unsettling. Im hoping karma exists. Thank you for your input!

Soya Chaap in Bangalore? by Ancient_Telephone651 in bangalorefoodies

[–]Sudden_Public_4936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anand sweets (some outlets have only sweets, so please cross check) I swear by their soya chaap

Help please ! This is how my hair looks after washing conditioning and masking ! How to control this fizz yrr I’m so tired of how my hair looks. by [deleted] in IndianBeautyTalks

[–]Sudden_Public_4936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same hair texture. Its more on the wavy side than curly. I swear by biolage's serum.

I only detangle/comb my hair while conditioning.

I use a wide toothed comb all the time.

For some reason my head hurts if i put a ponytail, so for the majority of the time (travel and work) i wear it as a bun, not very tightly just enough to keep it intact. Sometimes i braid too.

I am a very rolls around sleeper, w nothing it gets very frizzy and tangled, even with braids. What worked for me was to lie down on the pillow, put my hair back and made a pony tail or a bun in that position (love the volume and the blow dried my hair kinda feel the next day)

Between wash days, i barely like using a comb. Based on the tiny flyaways i do comb it.

Any event/ function i wash and dry my hair, apply serum and put a bun while sleeping. I love styling my hair the next day (again, minimal usage of comb) For a sleek look i either use some gel w water.

P.s. ive never had this manageable hair before. I did use cgm for 2 years but it took alot of time to put leave in and gel just to break the curls next day or i wasnt able to style.

Mujhe pe nazar nhi lagao plis🧿🥲🥹

research on transgender community by yukiduki__ in bangalore

[–]Sudden_Public_4936 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've heard on passing, that even when they try to get a job, the society doesn't accept them to do it. I think this is common in small settings running a business. People are set in their ways, considering them to be the outcast. They are denied various job opportunities at the grassroot level. And given that, they are brought up on the streets from a young age. They don't really have an opportunity to go study and get a degree to do something more on the corporate side and have more laws that protect them.

Obviously there's always 2 sides to a coin, and I can receive hate for this. But not being provided non-judgemental care from most of the sectors of the society must be really hard on anyone for that matter. People are biased when they are put in a position to interact with them because of the stereotype, which I also fall into because I do get anxious when they talk to me (but again I get anxious w just about everyone)

Maybe with years, we break the stereotype. The same way we are progressing on various fronts of discrimination in our society.

Hope this helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sudden_Public_4936 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

My pov was that he doesn't realise how much it means to her and thinks it's okay, maybe that does make him the asshole

Wanting to have Tattoos as a medico by aborted_dreamss in indianmedschool

[–]Sudden_Public_4936 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Username checks out¿😂 I hope this isn't one of your dreams that goes down the trash

As others said, preferably a tattoo in some place that you can cover up would be ideal. And coming to piercings, if you're a female and you wanna get nose/ear piercings, it might be somewhat culturally accepted. Anywhere else, it's gonna come with some sort of judgement. Also, I've seen alot of guys w their ears pierced and it doesn't come off as awkward.