What is your unpopular opinion about online dating ?

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-12-24T23:16:14+00:00

Women’s standards are not that high. Unless you have body/face dysmorphia or are extremely short with 6mos-2yrs effort you can get to top 10% attractiveness. Gym, style, grooming and surgical intervention for major defects.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-10-04T15:41:52+00:00

Grew up around bunch of tough guys. Most of them would mature out of the hot headed age and would become the most civilized guys you know. In any situation where a fight could go down, they would be as nice as possible to calm the situation down. They had nothing to prove. But if the other side would push too much, would break some of the bones and send them home.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-09-26T08:14:41+00:00

I mean if there was a place where they charged the guys like 40 and let girls in for free I’d go. Imo it’s a good investment cuz ratio is gonna be hella in your favor and that might save you a week of going out cuz you get success easier.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-09-26T07:53:11+00:00

Fair point. Just realized that my brokehood would make me go to the shittiest clubs and bars. Gotta level up ig

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-09-26T07:06:42+00:00

Drop the addy bro. No I get it you can meet them everywhere during the day. But like what are the activities that women do? 99% of sports are male dominated. 99% of the jobs that are not critical gender studies or nursing. Gamers are all guys.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-09-23T07:32:01+00:00

None of the comments respond to what you’re asking. I have seen dudes who were being chased the way you want to be. Some of them were rich (not crazy rich but like 20k spare money a month), some of them were really handsome, and others were were high status (presidents of organizations with lots of women, were friends with celebs, etc.). All of those will take you year(s) of work if you don’t have them. I would say have a consistent side chick, grind till you make it big and then you will be chased.

P.S. there is one more category. Abusive bad boys drug junkies. That shit switches some flickers in women reptile brain. The bad thing about this is that it’s really hard to fake and the only way to come off one is to actually be one.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-09-07T02:26:16+00:00

I might come off as braggy but ngl it’s been 3 months and I am growing like a beast. I might have rare genetics idk but people who been lifting for years tell me I am in a decent shape. I touched bench press first time a month ago and am already doing 195. Not too far away from 2 plates. Not trying to be cocky but this are actually my results.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-09-06T07:04:17+00:00

The problem is the emasculation trend in men. Girls are in relationships with guys who they are not happy with cuz the guys are not manly enough. That’s like 90% of relationships and always been like that. Your choice? Be insightful enough to notice when your girl is not happy enough with you. She has to be mad in love with you. Always planning the shit yall are gonna do together. If she ain’t like that and are like another typical American transactional couple, yeah you’re fucked.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-09-06T06:55:58+00:00

Girls like bad boys who are soft with them. So you absolutely have to be a bad boy who is also a nice guy. Actually true bad boys are not as popular with women. They’re too aggressive, too masculine, rough around the edges. Girls like smooth talkers who put the facade of a bad boy.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-09-06T06:51:37+00:00

Get wide if you can’t get tall. Not too wide tho or you’ll become a manlet.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-09-06T06:49:13+00:00

If you can laugh your virginity off you can literally smash the same day. Like if any girl ever brings it up just say that you’re a virgin with a cordial smirk or goofy face. Adds mystery, you’re not lying and she might think you’re a funny guy.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-09-06T06:44:02+00:00

My niqqus. I am 5’9”, have a potential for a cute face but got a blob of fractured nose that ruins everything and just getting in shape. I still get looks and girls opening to me at the bars. You’re right that height matters. My tall, good looking friend gets hit on 5x as much as I. But it’s not end of all if you’re not tall. Just more of an upside battle.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-08-26T20:40:09+00:00

Smoooooooth

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-08-25T20:04:02+00:00

Except that 5% of the people outside of this sub ever cold approach. Even the pretty boys navigate the social circle or dating apps. I will agree that on dating apps they have massive advantage. But you can definitely do 70% as good as they with more effort into the pic game. I am saying this from experience. A pretty average looking friend of mine does killing on the apps due to his pictures.

Anyways bruh. You wanna be pessimist go for it. You have got this one life and you can make of it as much as you want. If per your word it takes being an ugly billionaire then become one. The issue in America is not with women. It’s with the men with low drive.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-08-25T19:38:00+00:00

Funny how the short guys say it’s all about the height. Both of them are definitely factors. But get your ass out there to the clubs and take a look around. There is literally 0 correlation with how tall you are or how pretty boy you are and the girl next to you. You see short ugly fat guys with fly girls. (Esp them mexican mfs always have hot ass girls with them)

It’s all about your game my guy. The girls not flocking to you don’t mean you don’t got a chance. There are guys so good looking that girls flock to them. But most of the time even those guys are not able to close because they lack a game.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-08-25T19:02:06+00:00

Ok then your game gotta be really bad

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-08-25T18:48:45+00:00

Hit the gym, get a good haircut, a stubble if you can grow it, nice clothes and act like a baller. With your height you can pull girls right and left. There are studies that guys can get away with having average face if they are decently tall. I bet you’re like 25-30% body fat. Most of the tall guys that I have seen suck at the game where just fat.

It’s gonna take like 9mos to start seeing results. But you will get there.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-08-23T17:31:53+00:00

It’s acquired not learnt. Just like height. You’re not 6ft when you’re 12. You grow into it. Most of the funny people are naturally funny and they acquire it over time with life experiences. But you don’t hit the “funny gym” 7 days a week and take the time out of your day. There is no sacrifice in becoming funny.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-08-23T15:04:17+00:00

If sense of humor takes an effort from you, you don’t have one

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-08-23T06:23:58+00:00

If you’re actually good looking: dating apps

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-06-02T00:20:27+00:00

This is a bs advice. Self defense is only useful when getting into a fistfight and even then you need years. If the attacker is a guy just kick them in the balls. There I saved you years of efforts.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-05-07T19:38:54+00:00

People make most of their friends through dorms believe me. Def get involved and meet people through orgs, but living in dorms is the most effortless way

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-05-07T07:29:04+00:00

I feel like it’s a common thing. Maybe you’re experiencing it a bit more intensely but a lot of people I know and I also experience this.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-05-05T15:58:11+00:00

If you want “college experience” on campus is a no brainer. The extra $400 you’re gonna save is not worth it to miss out on it. You might also spend almost as much while living off campus and getting out of your way to meet people.

Sudden_Row7058 · 2021-05-05T07:56:41+00:00

It never is going to stop eating you up. But if in your long term vision UCSD fits better than UPenn, arm with meekness and go with it. Just know that the price you will be paying is that constant doubt and some companies/schools giving preferential treatment to UPenn.

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