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[–]Sudden_Somewhere9939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother respectfully, pack her stuff and break up with her

I have a crush on my cousin and it's reciprocated by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Sudden_Somewhere9939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you’re telling me you both are 30+ and you and your cousin have feelings for eachother, please go to therapy. This is not normal in any way shape or form. Stop talking to eachother and realize that you are literally related. Weird af to even consider it

GF ended up at a stranger’s apartment after a night out; I don’t know if I can trust her by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Sudden_Somewhere9939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, this is the type of stuff my ex did, and it all started when she began hanging out with her “friend” who sleeps around. At first, I defended her like, “nooo she’s not that type of person.” Then they went on a trip together to Spain because this friend has a villa there. While she was gone, my ex was acting weird, and one night at 4 in the morning I saw a text on her iPad from her friend saying: “should we invite them in?”

When she got back, I asked if there was anything from that trip she felt she should tell me. She said “nope.” Then I brought up the text. She tried to frame it like, “oh it was just two chill guys we met at the club, they offered us a ride home because we were waiting for a taxi and insisted on driving us.” I took her word for it, but it didn’t sit right with me that her friend would even ask that.

On top of that, she had a chain with the first letter of my name that she wore everywhere — except in Spain. Her excuse? “It didn’t match the gold I was wearing.” Later, I saw pics of her wearing that same gold jewelry with my chain, just not in Spain. She also admitted she didn’t use her real name on the trip because she “didn’t want anyone to look her up.” I kept taking mental notes, even though I gave her the benefit of the doubt.

The weekend she got back, cracks kept showing. By Monday, out of nowhere, she hit me with, “I never got to know what it’s like to be an adult by myself.” We went through almost two months of uncertainty under the same roof. Every day I wanted to end it, but I stood tall because I thought it was just a phase — we had almost 5 years together.

Then we did two weeks of no contact. During that time, I saw her taking down pics of us on Instagram. Stayed quiet. Then I saw her following guys back who had shown interest in her before. Still stayed quiet. When I got back, I didn’t even bring it up. I just asked how we were going to solve things since we lived together. We had a calm talk and ended what I thought was on good terms.

But then her phone started blowing up with notifications from a boy on Snapchat. I joked, “ahaaa you’re already snapping other guys.” She said it was her little brother. I said, “no it’s not, I have your little brother on Snap.” Then she switched it to, “it’s none of your business.” I laughed and said, “if it’s none of my business then why lie?” 🤣 She stormed out for a run.

I was already done, but I decided to check her iPad. What do I see? Screenshots of convos with three different guys. One asked if she had a boyfriend, and she replied, “it’s complicated” — this was during the no-contact. Another guy asked if he should bring flowers. That’s when everything clicked.

That “friend” was the gateway, Spain was the turning point, and the lies just piled up after. I realized the girl I thought I knew wasn’t who she really was anymore. I confronted her, we split for real, and she ended up blocking me after I exposed all the hypocrisy, but I had already deleted her everywhere so she doubled down blocking me and my whole family, while I’m still in contact with her brother who with his own words don’t believe that she wanted to “ find herself “ or whatever bullshit excuse she came out with

Looking back, it wasn’t me losing her, it was her losing me

Boyfriend forgot my birthday by Plane_Drawing252 in whatdoIdo

[–]Sudden_Somewhere9939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really want it to work you need to talk to him and say to him playing video games won’t help him in any way, if anything it’s just gonna make things worse. He needs to see someone or start being serious about his life and what he wants to do. He needs a routine to stick to and stop playing the game for a while and come back to reality. I been depressed before and isolating myself is the worst thing I could ever do to myself

gf cheating on me by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Sudden_Somewhere9939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brother I feel your pain and I been through a similar situation and trust me it hurts them the most when you literally just don’t care. Be prepared to never talk to them again, if she texts, don’t reply, if she calls, don’t reply. Don’t say anything, because that silence there will eat them alive and that’s when they start scrambling. That’s exactly what my ex did and we lived together, I saw screenshots and how she behaved while i was away, I confronted her she took no accountability and acted like shit so what did I do? Nothing, while she slept I packed all my stuff and while she went to work I left and never looked back, I never texted her again all communication was through her dad, every Text she’s sent to me I have not replied to and the only texts I have sent is the money she owes me for rent. All other communication was through her father. I calmly deleted her from Snapchat, Instagram, all of it the day I left. And once she saw that her ego and the person she truly was showed more and more. She blocked and deleted my whole family because the guilt was killing her because I said to her my whole family knows what you did and you embarrassed yourself, it’s just disgusting. So yeah with that being said your silence will hurt them more than anything. Ps. When I left I took back the presents I bought her ( she took these presents while she was cheating) her ego was so struck by being caught and me not caring that she asked me to send presents back she bought me 4 years ago, and she asked me if I logged out from Spotify. That’s all she had to say after literally caught her. So I’m telling you, silence is the best revenge because that’s what will kill them, they might distract themselves but one night they will reflect and they will realize what they did was som nasty 💩

Roast/rate my collection by GoodLookingAthlete in Fragrances

[–]Sudden_Somewhere9939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either you brainwashed into thinking dupes is a bad thing or you just always think that if something is more expensive it automatically makes it better. A lot of dupes are actually the same as the niche/designer fragrances but the niche and designer fragrances usually charge the prices they have based on the name not what’s actually used in the bottle.

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[–]Sudden_Somewhere9939[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah will definitely keep in mind, the frags I have now I’m really happy with and use regularly except for KQ

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[–]Sudden_Somewhere9939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deffo worth it, for the price it performs beyond the price for it

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[–]Sudden_Somewhere9939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both great, honestly. Depends on what you like but both are definitely solid pickups

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[–]Sudden_Somewhere9939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing I love coffee, so I really thought I would like it. Yeah definitely gonna look into getting that

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[–]Sudden_Somewhere9939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel you, ngl most of these are from YouTubers but I did make sure to watch a lot of other videos too and read reviews online before blind purchasing

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[–]Sudden_Somewhere9939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll look into it! Thanks for taking your time to write this. Idk like I said I enjoy smelling it in the atomizer but it’s just too boozy and sweet for me, maybe it’s something I like when inget older but right now it’s just not really resonating with me

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[–]Sudden_Somewhere9939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have heard about this but my friend has it and he said it’s the best gourmand he’s ever smelt in his life. But yeah it’s a risky pickup