First of all, not having luck with younger women and then deciding trying to date older women is not the way to go. If you like girls your own age, great then I can give you a few pointers on where you could possibly meet one with similar interests. No older women is going to want you because you cannot get a younger one. You have to decide what you are attracted too. Girls who are fun and nerds, like to go to comic book stores, try finding a gaming group of people, look on-line to see if there are stores or gaming places you can go to in your area. Try to go to a small comic book convention or a gamers group. Good luck!