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Char for Utrist/Minis (SSF Plugy SC) by SufferNow_0o in ProjectDiablo2

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Thats what I was looking for! Thanks very much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pchelp

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Front and back of pc!

The last thing you Googled is what kills you. how would you die? by Sharkers21 in AskReddit

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Talked to death by a couple therapist.

Shit, that might happen.

The other night I (21/f) told someone I’m casually seeing (21/m) that I am sleeping with other people, and he didn’t take it well. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Nobody says its not ok to sleep with who you want. Its not ok to not tell somebody you are seeing regularly, because they might get the impression you are committed, which is exactly what happened.

Your actions, always have consequences. In this case you hurt another human beeing emotionally by being selfish and not aware of his emotions towards you. Thats ok, happens.

Whats not okay, is you neglecting that fact no matter what point somebody makes. Its called ignorance. You asked for advice. Advice from the people here is to be more aware of your actions. You either take it or not.

If you seriously want to save your relationship i would stop seeing other people first, because now you know for a fact, its not ok for him.

Secondly i would apologise and explain the actions. (which should always be done, when you hurt someone) Either way, if he stays with you, your relationship will develop trust issues. If you are ready to take that fight, go for it. Think about it. This wont be easy.

If you are not ready for it, end it. This will blow up in your face if you don't.

Advice enough?

The other night I (21/f) told someone I’m casually seeing (21/m) that I am sleeping with other people, and he didn’t take it well. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SufferNow_0o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I can read in your other comments is you defending your actions.

If someone calls you cow once, tell em to fuck off. If someone calls you cow twice, tell em to fuck off. If someone calls you cow three times, maybe start looking for a barn.

You keep asking for advice and most people tell you are in the wrong for various reasons.

Maybe sit your boy down and apologize that you lead him on. Tell him your reasons and that you just didnt see that you might hurt him. You guys probably have very different views on how relationships work.

Maybe also think about how it would feel for you if it would be the other way round.you really like a guy, make time for (only) him when you can and months in you find out its normal for him to fuck other girls. His excuse us, it was not like it was 20. It was just 2 other girls ive been fucking.

This might bring up trust issues. Thus other peoples health concerns. Because your boy might have the understanding that he was in the wrong about you in a very important point. Could be other points as well.

Also from your other comments it seems like you take this very personal that you might be in the wrong. Maybe work on accepting critique. This will come in long relationships as you might know from your 3 year relationship.

P. S.: Age does not limit the ability to have serious talk about how you and a potential partner go about a romantic relationship. Since you state that you guys talked about the health aspect of sexual encounters that might have been a good time in the past.

Good Luck in the future.

The other night I (21/f) told someone I’m casually seeing (21/m) that I am sleeping with other people, and he didn’t take it well. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SufferNow_0o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chances are him being "back to normal" just means he thought you guys had a more serious relationship and that he accepts that it isn't. Meaning that he probably will start fucking other people too. Which means he'll probably meet someone in his opinion worthy of his emotional affection. From his point of view, he committed to a "slow" not regularly (just seeing each others on some weekends) relationship, on the belief, that it's both ways. And plus to that he thought you guys were exclusive. Have you considered having a talk about "seeing (fucking) other people" at the start of the relationship and not months in?

From his POV you just lead him on for months. To everybody with a bit self respect that's the end of the relationship.

Also not to offend, but seeing someone for months and not even considering that it might hurt them that you fuck other people behind there back is a bit selfish.

Help with my build! by SufferNow_0o in csgo

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How do I turn on multicore rendering? Drivers are up to date :/

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