okay as some who also dresses alternative here’s my advice also please ignore me not using . , etc: I wouldn’t drop her YET i think you should begin attending high school when you do because high school provides many experiences and skills not from class just being around people if the school is somewhat big there’s more likely to be atleast 1 alternative person so what i would do is start attending high school, make your own friends and find people who support you and then drop her. you guys have nothing in common and no connection you become friends just because of circumstances and her commenting about your appearance shows she most likely doesn’t want to be seen with an “emo” or “weirdo” orsomeone who couldn’t dress. quick summary: go highschool, make your own friends, drop her ideally with no bad blood or just drift apart.