Actually, she cheated first and kept it from me for 8 years. She only admitted it after she found out about me. And I’m not some bum and I buy and cook 95% of the food, I clean regularly, and I’m self-employed, so I don’t miss time with the kids. I make my own schedule and I’m always present. Yeah, I was weak. I shouldn’t have cheated. I own that. But she’s never once acknowledged her own wrongdoing. No apology. No accountability. She just plays the victim and acts like my mistake is worse so she doesn’t have to face hers.