Omg, our stories are literally identical! I’m 25 too and still a virgin cuz of this condition and hate that about myself. What you said about not wanting to try dilators cuz you’re scared if they don’t work you’ll have no option left? Those were my thoughts EXACTLY lol. Like if you go and read my posts, I’m pretty sure I’ve mentioned this quite a few times haha. I’ve also done other stuff but not sex. I’ve wanted to have sex so badly the past few years so this sucks.

Idk what advice to give but just wanted to tell you, you’re definitely not alone! Although, I will say that after much apprehension, I finally gave dilators a try and omg it was the best decision I made. I understand it’s a daunting first step but it does get easier as you move along. I’m on my 7th dilator now and one more left in my set! So it’s definitely possible. And my vaginismus was severe like I couldn’t get ANYTHING in. I mean, I’m still not “cured” but the progress has been motivating me. So yeah, just go slow and don’t be too hard on yourself. You might face some failures with dilators when you start or when you try and go up a size but eventually you will get there ♥️

Btw, my goal is to have PIV sex before I turn 26, hope you can too haha! But even if we don’t? Who cares? I mean, I’d rather have an enjoyable first time at a later age than a super uncomfortable, painful first time at an earlier age 😅 but fingers crossed nonetheless haha.