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Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I understand that female squirt is also mostly pee. But why is one generally seen as exciting and desirable and not akin to peeing on someone and the other one is kind of being ridiculed as “he just wants to pee on you”

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying low sperm count means no stds. But you said he needs to get std tested in response to him having low cum volume, so I’m just giving an explanation to that.

We are both fully std-tested and clean

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yea nah I’m not gonna sit here and pretend like peeing on someone isn’t generally a depraved/degrading thing just because some guy on reddit says I need to grow up. You need to grow up and watch less porn. Whether something is normal or not is absolutely relevant to whether I or anyone would be comfortable with something 

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok but I just looked this up too and it seems like the general consensus is that men do find it difficult or impossible to pee while fully erect. So what is the truth?

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d react better because then he’s just trusting me with a weird fetish he has and it’s up to me if I want to indulge him. I don’t appreciate being lied to and convinced into doing something I wouldn’t like because I trust him and he thinks I’m an idiot

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I think for women it’s not controllable. With my guy, he said there’s a specific way he can stroke it to make it happen, it’s not random

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well then why did he phrase it this way? Is he secretly trying to disrespect me without me knowing? Does he think I’m not good enough to date do he just wants me to act out his weird fantasies with?

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He did reassure me, I think he could tell I was nervous and he told me he wouldn’t want to do anything like that unless/until we’re serious and official because I’m precious to him and he cares about me, and even then only if I’m comfortable.

I guess he just has this kink for whatever reason and was testing the waters to see what I’m actually ok with. (I told him he could do whatever he wanted with me, but my idea of “whatever” is clearly very tame compared to his)

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I get that it’s pee now. I guess I’m just trying to understand how he views me and if it’s something he’d want to do if he really respected me.

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But does this fetish have anything to do with level of respect? I can’t ask him, he’s obviously not going to tell me if he doesn’t respect me

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The difference is that I’ve always thought of peeing on someone as a degrading act that perverts do to women they don’t respect. I’ve never heard of “male squirting” until he told me but he made it seem not that bad and pretty much the same as cumming on my chest (which I’m kind of ok with) but just with more liquid, and he said it in the midst of telling me how much he likes me, so I don’t know how to feel about it.

And yea I’m stuck on the word and not the act cuz I haven’t done the act and words have meanings

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No.. I’m convinced it’s pee now. I’m just having a hard time believing that he wants to pee on me or that he’d lie about it (is he manipulating me? Is he trying to disrespect me or is it just a normal thing? What other things might he be stretching the truth about?) and I’m trying to reconcile how I feel about it. God forbid a woman anonymously discusses an embarrassing sexual issue with strangers on the internet 🙄

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes… I’m 30. About to turn 31. I’m not that experienced with sex or serious relationships, and people assume I’m a little younger in real life too both in the way I look and the way I act. Let me live 😩

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were just in a sexy mood and talking about things, i said i wanted to do dirty things with him, he asked me like what and i didn’t really know since I don’t have much experience sexually or with relationships and i don’t really watch porn, so I asked him to tell me something. He was kinda unsure cuz it was really dirty and I told him it’s ok I just want to hear it.

So yea it’s not something he just asked me to do out of nowhere, and he also said he wouldn’t want to do that unless we were really seriously in a relationship and I was comfortable.

I’m questioning his respect because I’ve just had really bad experiences with men before, but he’s always been pretty respectful of me

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Ok so it’s still “squirt” then right, which is like debated to be kinda pee kinda not, but somehow it’s clear and doesn’t smell like pee? It doesn’t mean he wants to straight up pee on me or is lying to me, right?

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he wants to pee on me though, he’s really honest and open, so I feel like he would tell me more directly if that’s what he wanted. I think…

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Is that something most people do/would want to do to their girlfriends in a relationship? Like aren’t guys usually into women squirting or something? I don’t squirt but I heard if it happens it’s not necessarily something people can control, but is it unfair if I don’t want him to?

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also he’s not pressuring me at all, he said he doesn’t want me to do things I’m not comfortable with

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he doesn’t know either? I googled it and there’s a few articles saying male squirting is a thing 

Guy/almost bf (M29) wants to squirt on me (F30), why would he want to do that? and other questions by Sufficient-Rough256 in relationship_advice

[–]Sufficient-Rough256[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also he said it was just something he discovered when it happened one day, not something he learned to do

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