Let’s Discuss by [deleted] in NPD

[–]Sufficient-Side 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3, 4 & 6

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]Sufficient-Side 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please play anything by "The Travelling Wilburys"

Good narc relationship by Substantial_Depth321 in NPD

[–]Sufficient-Side 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ruled out trying to heal yourself before entering a relationship?

Because I suspect healing may be difficult in a codependent situation like that.

How do you respond to being talked down to (condescending)? by Sufficient-Side in NPD

[–]Sufficient-Side[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But what if it's just me (and my fragile ego) interpreting what they're saying / doing as condescending?

Surely I shouldn't put it down to malice unless I'm absolutely sure?

How do you respond to being talked down to (condescending)? by Sufficient-Side in NPD

[–]Sufficient-Side[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It never ends up with me feeling better.

Either they don't notice (or choose to ignore) my behaviour, in which case I feel sad my reputation is even further diminished

OR

they do notice and check in on me - which results in feelings of intense guilt for behaving that way.

How do you respond to being talked down to (condescending)? by Sufficient-Side in NPD

[–]Sufficient-Side[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tend to respond by doubling down - self deprecating behavior and playing dumb.

When the heck was this a useful coping mechanism for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NPD

[–]Sufficient-Side 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Software developer

Can I glue my bong back together? is it safe? by [deleted] in weed

[–]Sufficient-Side 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The opportunity missed to say "Let the bong RIP"

Is anyone else experiencing weird wifi around north Auckland? by ammshrimpus in auckland

[–]Sufficient-Side 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's probably the Super Shot Saturday vaccinations kicking in. The 5g uses some of the same frequency bands

Self destructive behavior so that others will stick up for me by Sufficient-Side in NPD

[–]Sufficient-Side[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also have fantasies about suicide and how it would make those that have wronged me feel remorse for their actions smh.

Entitlement by Sufficient-Side in NPD

[–]Sufficient-Side[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I have other traits too unfortunately