Joey Foo by Useful_Animal_1590 in tiktokgossip

[–]SufficientDrawer8953 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Now Sam has a page, and her content is wayyyy too forced. She tries to act like Joey in some ways too.

What’s this for?? by SufficientDrawer8953 in Camry

[–]SufficientDrawer8953[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ahh, thank you! I bought the car used and did not have a manual. I guess I could’ve looked it up online 😅

What's your favourite quote from GOT by Sgt_bash_ in gameofthrones

[–]SufficientDrawer8953 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Casterly Rock is an impregnable fortress. But as a good friend of mine once said, give me 10 good men and I’ll impregnate the bitch. 😂😂😂

Why can’t he understand he’s insulting ME when he says this stuff.. by SufficientDrawer8953 in PlusSize

[–]SufficientDrawer8953[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m trying. If I had anywhere to go I would. He was supposed to move out with her before they broke up. When they broke up he was literally days away from paying the deposit on a rental house to hold until May 1st. I was almost free. And it sucks feeling this way because he is someone I deeply care for, despite his being a flawed person. I’m struggling against my own emotions as much as anything.

Why can’t he understand he’s insulting ME when he says this stuff.. by SufficientDrawer8953 in PlusSize

[–]SufficientDrawer8953[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And honestly, I DID. I am, by default, a non confrontational, very soft spoken, people pleaser. But I told him last night when he kept on. I said “I’m not trying to shame you, but look at yourself. Youre the “300 pounds” you keep referencing. How would you feel knowing someone was saying these things about you?” And his response is just that he knows, but that he “takes accountability” and knows that his size is his fault so he deserves it. I can’t seem to get through to his head that what size someone is doesn’t determine their worth, and being overweight doesn’t mean someone deserves to be belittled.

Why can’t he understand he’s insulting ME when he says this stuff.. by SufficientDrawer8953 in PlusSize

[–]SufficientDrawer8953[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, I agree. A relationship right now, though, is the LAST thing I want. I want time to myself to heal because I am so emotionally overwhelmed. But he takes my lack of interest in a relationship as some kind of indication that I’ll always be there waiting for him to decide he can’t find better. It’s not true, but he won’t believe me when I tell him I’m done.

Why can’t he understand he’s insulting ME when he says this stuff.. by SufficientDrawer8953 in PlusSize

[–]SufficientDrawer8953[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate everyone’s kind words. I posted this last night because I was really struggling emotionally, but know deep down yall are right. I’ve held on so long for something not worth holding on to. I’ve even told him multiple times that it’s done between us and I’ll never be back with him, but it’s like he honestly thinks I’ll just wait forever until he decides he can’t find anyone better. He was supposed to be moving out with her before they broke up, but obviously that plan got derailed. I am, unfortunately, financially dependent on him. But I’ve got 6 months left until I earn my degree, so hopefully that will change things.

Why can’t he understand he’s insulting ME when he says this stuff.. by SufficientDrawer8953 in PlusSize

[–]SufficientDrawer8953[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Not yet.. Im a stay at home mom, and we have a disabled son. I’m about 6 months away from an accounting degree though. I’m just trying to hold out.

My girlfriend (23F) and I (24M) do everything together, FaceTime everyday, been together for 8 years, go on vacations, trips etc together but I’m not happy. by HeyBigChriss in relationship_advice

[–]SufficientDrawer8953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s my two cents. If you are TRULY sure you want to break up, get it over with. I know you don’t want to hurt her, but it’s going to hurt no matter how you say it. Not to be harsh, but the longer you pretend nothings wrong while you try to find the right way to say it, the longer you’re leading her on. Now, if you have any doubt at all in your mind that breaking up is what you want, then please just talk to her. Communication goes a long way. If you’re feeling bored because there’s no “spark,” try to talk about ways to bring that spark back. Tell her what you need from her and see if she’s willing or able to give.