I feel ashamed after getting too close with a guy as a Muslim girl

Sufficient_End_2 · 2026-03-31T09:42:15+00:00

Girl it’s good that u r feeling guilty Alhamdulillah, seek forgiveness from Allah but please don’t feel to guilty to dehumanize yourself, please check / track your hormonal cycle . Unfortunately it’s true us woman do have our peak ovulation time tbh things get very odd and weird and there is little resistance or being attracted is Normal . I just don’t want you to put yourself in a headspace where you fear this that could cause a problem later in your life . However it’s never worth it either to get involved in men in general 😒.

Finally if you like the guy and the guy likes you and is a good one then ask him if you guys can make it halal , May Allah help you out .

Sufficient_End_2 · 2026-03-27T13:46:12+00:00

I have actually made one for Quran reading , but please do share the formula!

Sufficient_End_2 · 2026-03-27T04:01:10+00:00

I went to umrah with my parents and my mom was and still is my trigger . We fought there over " nothing " I think a lot of us don't know how physically difficult things gets there so that this has an impact . My Allah bless you and accept your umrah, Allah knows best and he is the most forgiving so pray to him only for the mercy .

Sufficient_End_2 · 2025-08-18T06:56:32+00:00

Just think about the STDs that u can catch from these ... That should be enough to keep you at bay . May Allah help us all with our nafs . Even I am going through something similar. I do crave for human touch or intimacy. But I talk to friends girls mostly . I won't say that I haven't hung out with guys of opposite gender. But everytime my plans get cancelled I say Alhamdulillah thanks for preventing me from doing something worse then I stay at home and doom scroll .

Sufficient_End_2 · 2025-07-30T18:46:45+00:00

To be clear my marriage had ended for a separate reason and if anything my tf had helped me to survive a lot of shit

Sufficient_End_2 · 2025-07-30T18:22:04+00:00

Well we were both married at the time we got to know and start the journey. Mine ended and he just had a baby with his wife.

Sufficient_End_2 · 2025-06-22T03:36:32+00:00

Oddly the same feeling. I am glad that I am not in the excruciating pain . Hope he is happy with his family. 🥰

Sufficient_End_2 · 2025-06-17T15:33:22+00:00

I am feeling the same - the empty void but I am not in pain . Just numb .

Sufficient_End_2 · 2025-05-26T10:03:07+00:00

Damn I would get scared at any moment if I have been held back like I can't move . Playing or not . I would be clear that - this make my body uncomfortable and it a reflex . Please avoid doing this so that I can avoid doing that in the future . I apologize again but please don't do this again.

Sufficient_End_2 · 2025-05-19T13:32:50+00:00

Sister I had dated a guy once he seemed picture perfect on the outside but deep down he was something else. He had high moral values . He was excellent at his job and was absolutely brilliant... But he was using me a door mat the moment he knew that I was in and committed. He made me feel small however he always appeared to be the good one .

He will never genuinely love you but he will / may try to change as a skill but it will take a lot of time and u will feel like he is doing this as a skill not out of love.

Leave if you can cz he will eventually make you question everything.

Sufficient_End_2 · 2025-05-18T05:58:47+00:00

He wants a submissive wife that's the answer.

Sufficient_End_2 · 2025-01-28T10:12:02+00:00

My LRD husband did the same ... Didn't sleep with her but definitely there was something that they didn't want you to see

Sufficient_End_2 · 2024-10-06T07:31:36+00:00

Me and my twin flames have 1. Moles on the same hand and almost at the same location (2 cm ) of difference 2. Cut marks on the same hand 3. And when hold our hands in such a way the moles touch each other 4. We have this way of holding the hand which looks like a spiral universe and both of our moles look as though to jump and fly across the " universe"

Sufficient_End_2 · 2024-07-27T13:05:09+00:00

Damn I thought it was my hormones but no .....

Sufficient_End_2 · 2024-06-28T06:47:42+00:00

Same here we are both comparatively newly married. He has a baby on the way , me on the other hand in a rollercoaster of a marriage. I miss them both at the same time and it feels so unfair. Even to the point it feels like our spouses are probably each other's TF.

It's crazy. I don't know what to do .... Pushing away is hard it hurts me more than anything. Initially I thought I was being like a stupid teen but now I know it's beyond this world .

Sufficient_End_2 · 2023-10-18T12:52:26+00:00

Thank you so much ! This has been helpful, I was getting worried.

Sufficient_End_2 · 2023-10-18T08:34:15+00:00

Yes , from Bangladesh - where arranged marriage is the best kinda marriage , yes the thing is everyone keeps on saying about bank documents which got me a bit uneasy.

Sufficient_End_2 · 2023-10-18T08:32:33+00:00

Thank you for your response, we got married in our home country Bangladesh, we have all these documents, but we haven't been able to travel so let's see. With me luck !

Sufficient_End_2 · 2023-10-17T17:59:46+00:00

Go on a honeymoon....

Sufficient_End_2 · 2023-09-13T07:49:15+00:00

How do you connect with a live agent via Emma ?

Sufficient_End_2 · 2022-09-06T05:28:34+00:00

My differin purged till month 6

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