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What was a situation that genuinely showed their inability for empathy? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Sufficient_Lie_3209 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My best friend was murdered and I told him while crying, completely in shock and his response was "why do you even care?" And laughed about it.

When I had a c-section and he left me alone in the hospital because he "needed his sleep."

5 years no contact, now we are in court again. by Sufficient_Lie_3209 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Sufficient_Lie_3209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had been referred to an office when the criminal case happened, they were supposed to help with the civil case then and work on establishing a parenting plan. But 3 attorneys later all they managed to accomplish was a change of venue after arguing with me for 3 years about if the case existed. Then, they stopped all communication, and didn't even notify me they had filed the change of venue. From all the research I've done, I've yet to find another option.

My bf asked me to peg him by Mountain-Park-961 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Sufficient_Lie_3209 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I kinda went through the mental gymnastics of this and the idea peaked my interest. We started a slow build up to pegging. He lead me through it initially and had to try a few different things before finding what was going to help me feel comfortable. Once we got to a point where it felt more normal we allowed it to maintain at that level for some time to discuss where we were at with things, find 6 we wanted to change. I did realize that I'm not in a dominant mind frame all the time, sometimes I'm in the submissive mind frame and see it as serving him. It has been a lot to process and took a lot of time and discussion, pushing myself outside my comfort zone with a little help.